Face vs Body vs Personality

Face vs Body vs Personality

If there were a girl with a perfect body, very cute face, and great personality, of course she'd be anyone's dream woman. We usually don't get all three perfect, so we pretty much walk the middle ground: we find someone who looks fairly cute or who has at least grown on us, has a decent body that turns us on a bit, and who we usually get along well with.

Here I'm going to assume there is no middle ground. The girl is either an 8 or a 4 in each category (note: I'm throwing intelligence in with personality). So, a cute face is a 8/10 and a non-cute face is a 4/10. A good personality is someone you get along with most of the time and the other is just kind of boring. And the nice body is nearly your perfect ideal and the out of shape body is someone who's not fat, but maybe with a muffin top who could stand to lose a few pounds. Here is how I feel about the different combinations:

Girl 1 - Nice Personality Only
We'd get along and have fun, but unless if we get drunk I wouldn't be attracted to her below average face and chunky body. She and I would be friends I might see at the bar or a party, but I'd never invite her out alone. Thus, romantically, she fails and wouldn't see the first date.

Girl 2 - Cute Face Only *
She'd be chunky and boring. I'd get her home, we wouldn't have fun, and we'd have unremarkable sex. I ditch her after the first or second date.

Girl 3 - Nice Body ***
She might be a bore but I'd get drunk and have a good time myself. I wouldn't look at her face but would be staring at her cleavage. I'd keep her around for a few months for the sex so I could see that wonderful body.

Girl 4 - Cute Face and Nice Body ****
For me, if she had my ideal body type and a cute face but was kind of a bitch, I wouldn't marry her, but I'd date her and have lots of wonderful sex! I might be bored talking to her, but I'd be looking forward to getting her naked later that night! Because of the great sex and parading her around, she'd probably last a few months.

Girl 5 - Cute Face and Nice Personality **
Here we have a girl with a cute face who I get along well with. I could take her to many restaurants and have good conversation while looking at her pretty face. We'd have sex but I wouldn't look forward to it as much if she had a little extra meat on her. I'd get rid of her eventually.

Girl 6 - Nice Personality and Nice Body *****
This girl would make me feel a bit different. I would want to talk to her more and do interesting things because she's a really cool girl. And she still has the body so we'd have a lot of even better sex than I had with the girl above because we get along so well. This one here might be a keeper.

And there you have it! Both girls with the nice body and either other trait get 4/5 or 5/5 stars. What's interesting is that nice body alone gets 3 stars wheres Face + Personality only gets 2. Therefore, I value body over either of the other two.

Something else interesting is that Personality + Body with her 5 stars beats Face + Body (4 stars) in the long run because we might have a relationship (of course for one-time sex only Face + Body would win). However, when it comes to Personality Only vs Face Only, Face wins with 1/5 stars because I might at least try to bang her whereas Personality gets 0 because I wouldn't even ask her out.


For several years I've liked thin girls but ones that maintain slight curves. "Voluptuous" women may turn me on, but they won't keep me coming back like a 24 inch (60 cm) waist will.

I've actually been with TINY girls with 21" (52 cm) waists that I could actually wrap my hands around. These girls were about 5' tall (152 cm) and weighed about 38 kg (84 lbs). Very sexy and desirable. But this isn't my ideal. I'd like them a bit taller with somewhat more shapely breasts and hips.

"Kakkoii Ne!" - Japanese Cockblockers

A friend in Japan just brought this up to me. I'm so glad I have other people to share stuff like this with! He was the only foreigner at the party and all the girls liked him. But, the Japanese guys all cockblocked him. How? All they did was call him かっこいい！

Seriously, who in the world outside of the Japanese-speaking expat player population in Japan would understand that to get a girl to NOT like a guy you have be the first one to say how handsome he is and keep saying it? Unheard of! The more you say it the more the girl is uninterested in talking to you and the cooler the guy who says it looks!

But I also did it back to them! I didn't do it to the guys who did it to me though because after you get a かっこいいな～！ thrown at you you're pretty much done and no girl within earshot will talk to you. But! When I saw a guy that might be a potential problem around a girl I'm already hitting on I learned to simply throw out the おおお～！かっこいいな！ and then his game was shut the hell dowwwwn! Learn the game, play, and win!