Why Girls Like Dumb Guys

Wow, I kind of noticed something else again today. This one was again prompted by something I saw today. Again this is something that has to do with all girls, Japanese included, but I might not have realized this had I not played the dating game in both places.

The realization
I moved into my current apartment not only because the price was right, it was clean, and I have a garage, but also because maintenance man seemed reliable. He looks about 30, average build, average looking, but he's, well, kind of slow. Not retarded, but lower IQ. Doesn't take a genius to paint and cut grass, but he seemed...manipulatable (?) and would agree to whatever I wanted done with the apartment before I moved in, show me other rooms on my demand and time frame, etc. Really passive guy. Anyway, I've been here a couple months and I ran into the cleaning girl who was vacuuming the stairs outside my door. She was about 24, tall, blond, extremely cute and from our conversation seemed really smart. I liked her so I found out a bit about her, such as she's going to grad school. But, I stopped when I found out that her BF is the maintenance guy. WTF!

Girls Choosing BFs of Lower Intellectual Capacity
And then it dawned on me that so many of the young, hot girls who AREN'T dumb, such as the ones in college who know where they're going in life (I think there are fewer of these in Japan but still) date complete douchebags. Even in Japan, when a girl is cute and smart, even if she's not in college often you'll hear stories about her B-kei or hostboy retard BF and you're like WTF? Here, the young cute girls love the douchebag wiggers, stoners, or bums.

Why?
And I think one reason this is is because since this type of girl generally knows what she wants, she has to find a guy who will go where she wants to go and do what she wants to do. Mr. 84 IQ isn't going to argue with her about important things in her life--such as moving to a new city with her for school or work--he's just going to follow along, like a puppy dog. And reason 2, I think, is that it's a challenge for a girl to help these guys along. Maybe it's a nurturing motherly instinct to help change these bozos and retards.

The Opposite Type
Of course whatever we say can't sum up the world, because there will always be the more passive girls who either a) can't think for themselves where they want to go on a date so always have the guy choose, b) are so dumb that all guys are above her intellectually, c) aren't attractive so don't have many choices so have to settle for whatever guy they find. In the case of c) I see many great guys who are with unattractive girls because the girls who know what they want don't want a guy who also knows what he wants. Here, the fatties might be smart, but since they have to take what they can get they may be with a more controlling, confident man (like most of us); although they might actually want to be the one in charge. In Japan, many women are extremely passive to begin with, never think, and take on the what I'm calling the lower IQ roll by default.