So there you are, sitting in Japan. There's probably at least one excuse you tell yourself about why you're there. For my six years the excuses had been a lot of things. The first reason to go was to get with many Asian girls. During the first year, though, although I was happy with the girls, I had some problems preventing me from relaxing and enjoying my life, so I stayed longer.
During the second year I got my work and apartment situations straightened out and was happier. During the third year I started focusing heavily on getting the hot girls that no one gets. I got a few and eventually got a GF I really liked. Around the time I got her I realized that gaijin don't get girls like her because of the language problem. Ask Mild Seven, when I first started dating Eri neither of us could understand what the hell she was talking about! Young, hardcore male slang, I guess you could say.
For the few months I was dating her I rarely cheated, which was odd. I told myself that she was the reason I was in Japan. I started studying Japanese again to understand the things she was saying. When that relationship was finished I had no more excuses to be in Japan. I didn't have her, and since I didn't, I had no reason to study Japanese. I hated the world. It was around the end of year three and I considered leaving Japan. I vented steam though a monster rampage the following month and slept with ten new club girls.
Those girls and a new young tan-blond GF made me feel better. She, new girls, and the JLPT2 were my new reasons to be in Japan. I passed the test (and started studying for JLPT1), took her to the US to visit, and fooled around with other girls while learning more and more about Japan, the girls, the language, and the culture. The new GF helped me more than she knew with her speed-talking and hardcore speaking style. Learning these things was a slow process, but I do know a lot more now; more about the culture, more about the language, and more about serious relationships. Did you ever feel that you can't really be friends with a guy who doesn't speak Japanese or who has only been in Japan a year? I doubt I could be friends with my past self.
By the end of year four I was able to get several of the type of girls I couldn't get before. I moved to a bigger room thanks to working extra hours the year before, got it to where I only worked four days a week, had a string of nice GFs, and was basically living my dream life.
And then it stagnated. I was focused on attaining these things for a few years and when I got them I didn't even want them. Sure, I'll always probably want a girlfriend and new pussy on the side, but sometimes it's kind of like, "that's it?"
For a little background about why I feel I needed reason or excuses to remain in Japan, I'll show you the "Five Reasons Guys Go to Japan." It's not an essay or anything but just something in my head that's been important to me for years.
1) Money
2) Girls
3) GF/wife
4) Learning (martial arts, language, etc)
5) Manga/video game nerd or Japanophile
You could make more, but while I was in Japan I always made sure I was doing at least two of these to "excuse" myself for being in Japan neglecting my future. It was hard to mix Money with Girls because they both take time. GF and Learning Japanese went well together. I don't think I ever did all four (I was never into #5) hardcore at once, but I did three. Oddly, having a GF and getting new Girls goes together well too.
So, in year five I had everything I'd ever wanted, but didn't want it any more. I already had my current GF by then, but I'd read The Game and felt like clubbing a lot again. Maybe I was just subconsciously trying to justify still being in Japan? My urge to go to clubs only lasted a couple months.
At the beginning of my final year I saw a lot of changes. These changes are why I'm not in Japan now. Japan Lair started. Finally, a bunch of guys just like me. What I was doing wasn't bad. I felt better as seeing a bunch of guys also doing what I've been doing for years kind of justified how I'd spent my time, made me felt like my lifestyle was okay, and allowed me to move on. I met Amanojack and Thinker around that time too. A girl who had been staying with me for a month moved out and I was totally relieved. My GF who'd gone semi-silent for two months came back and we're still together today. Had it been two years earlier I wouldn't have understood relationships as much and would have lost her.
But, the main big change was my introduction to something different: I read a book. Then another. And another. After one year I'd read 90 books on mind state, self-happiness, mental preparation, human interaction, and business. I immediately stopped studying Japanese. So many smart guys' ideas to read! That was the kick in the pants I needed. After reading for a few months I knew I'd leave Japan in 2008. I planned on February but being late doesn't matter as long as you do it.
I left four beautiful GFs, but that's about two too many for me. I'm keeping the two blonds and letting the other two fizzle out. And so far home is good. This was supposed to be about me being in America. I even had to change the title from "Living in America" because I got off on a tangent about me staying in Japan. Ah well. I'll make another post about the US sometime. I don't know how long I'll be here, but I think I need some sort extended vacation from my what became a permanent vacation in Japan.
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Saturday, August 2, 2008
Sex on the Beach...What Type of Girl?
Well, I've got a new way of hunting girls. Not that this will overtake my usual way, but I have something that seems too be working pretty well. I think I might be able to have sex on the beach within an hour or two of meeting the girl and be successful 66% of the time!
There are a lot of factors and I won't put them here, because I've only actually done it three times so far, and although I have noticed similarities with these three, with only three times sex on the beach experience, I'd be spouting off pure theory and KJing. So, we'll ignore the time of day, location, how to talk to the girls, how to get rid of the gyaru-o cockblockers, who and what to take with you, etc. I hope to try this one more time within the next week. If it works another few times without too much failure, I'll give full details.
For the record, I'm 3/5 having sex on the beach. The two I failed on were simple failures. The first failed because it was too sunny and too crowded. I don't think anyone would have sex will all those people around. The next time was at a beach far from home and it was too late. I also didn't talk to the girl like I wanted to and my friends and I weren't in the right position. I didn't really like her, so I don't think I was at my best. The successful three had these things constant. Anyway, here I'm going to discuss the kind of girl who will have sex with you on the beach.
An Australian friend, nicknamed No.1, messaged me on MSN. The conversation got me thinking about the type of Japanese girls you can bang on the beach (misspells edited):
No.1: hey playa
NB: hey!
No.1: still laying it down on the hOs in J-ville?
NB: haha, I think I might have a new skill!
No.1: what is your skill, man?
NB: I can spot which girls on the beach want to be banged!!
No.1: haha. man, I thought you had that skill from 3 years ago
NB: and bang them right there!
No.1: on the beach??!
NB: ya!
No.1: ...that's not a skill man...your GOD! tell me more!
[NB sends C:\My Documents\My Pictures\Beach\Beach body.jpg]
NB: haha, did it 2x last year too
No.1: ok...so...from the start....you're walking along
No.1: you see some want-to-be-banged girl
NB: uh-huh
No.1: and what...say hi talk to her and stick your in when people are around?
No.1: (regarding the body picture also viewable above) a little mochi mochi but nice. I like the gym types myself
NB: I guess it doesn't really matter what they look like if you bang them on the beach. I don't know, I liked her!
No.1: so what...you bang them in front of their friends and stuff?
NB: hold on a sec, eating
No.1: haha man...you still love the brainless looking ganguros!!! I thought they were extinct!
So, for sex on the beach, your target won't be a tan blond gyaru or any girl rated 8 or above on the NuBreed Rating Scale.*1 (Most tan blonds gyaru with full-on make up and thin bodies will get an 8 if their face is at least average. Why? Because they are the most desirable by most Japanese men and get hit on the most.) From what I've experienced, these girls aren't the easiest targets.
I'm also theorizing that the older, or the more B-class girls won't be the easiest of targets. I'm not talking about the ugly or the English milkers who are going to be simple for gaijin, I'm talking about basically average girls who rate between 4 and 6, maybe even 7, who fit in the B-class, and are a certain type of college girl or OL.
The girls I've found that this works on would be the in-between girls, girls who are semi-A-class, and I think that's so because their looks reflect their personality. If you're totally a tan and blond gyaru, you likely have the same personality of total tan blond gyarus, and if you're a B-class chick you have that B-class personality. And if you're in the middle, you have a middl-er personality. (In Japan stereotypes are more correct than anywhere else.)
(A middle girl could go either way if she's in either a B-class girl group, or a total A-class girl group [there are other A-class besides tan blonds, of course]. But, if these "middle" girls' friends are also middle, they are all pretty much the middle type.)
My friend Thinker, the world's best beach wingman, was able to describe this "middle" far better than I can: "the girls that are trying to be gyaru, but are a little too countryside for it." What he means is that the girls can't be the non-adventurous type; they have to want to try to be like the A-class girls in the in-groups. It seems to make sense.
Therefore, the girls rated around 7 on my scale would be good for this. Or else the 6s who may be younger (and are thus more desirable by Japanese men). We need the adventurous personality here. Since looks can predict personality, it fits.
The regular B-class 4s, 5s, and 6s would be a no-go. Ugly girls, older girls, girls with jobs, milkers, and other girls who I usually rate under 6, on average are most likely to give LMR, even if they are the easiest to get to hang out with you.
The 8s rarely give me LMR (maybe they've have sex so much that they're LMRed out?). However the 8s would be no good for beach sex either because the hot 8s and up are hit on so much that they don't want to hang out with a gaijin, they want the most desirable Japanese guys. (That doesn't explain one of my beach successes, because she's at least 8 no matter how you dice it, but still.)
There are exceptions, of course. The first two "targets" I talked to the other day were kind of the serious type. They talked to me a for a few minutes, but I couldn't move them to another place. They just wanted to sit at the beach house tables and be bitchy. They were the type who have jobs and are likely very popular with the guys at work, so they think they are big sh*t even on the beach, although they are only 7s (which is hot, sure, but certainly not an 8).
So, although these bitchy 7s don't fit with the hottest of girls, they think they do, so they have the same bitchy I'm-the-sh*t type personality usually reserved for the teenage 8s. They are not comparable to the 8s, though, because the coolest guys don't nampa them, but they lie to themselves saying they don't want these guys to hit on them anyway. So, they turn down average guys, they turn down gaijin, and they actually will talk to some of the coolest guys on the beach, however, unfortunately for them, these guys don't like them. So, they go home and the bitchy cycle continues.
That's all I have for now about the "types" of girl. It's all based on the rating scale, which rates girls by looks as well as fashion type which is a direct relation to her popularity amongst Japanese men. The scale is an indispensable tool. And my final conclusion: milkers yes; 4s and 5s you've spent the whole day with them yes; 6s no, 7s yes, 8s no.
*1 The NuBreed Objective Rating Scale rates a girl by fashion and type, not only looks. It basically rates a girl higher depending on how much she would get hit on in comparison to other girls. 8s are what many guys give HB10 or HB12. 9s are rare, even on the beach. If you're seeing more than a few 9s a month, you're not using the scale correctly...or else you're on the beach daily :)
UPDATE (8/10): I'm now 4/6 on getting some sort of action on the beach. A few days ago I got her shirt off, fingered her, and got a nice hand job! ;)
There are a lot of factors and I won't put them here, because I've only actually done it three times so far, and although I have noticed similarities with these three, with only three times sex on the beach experience, I'd be spouting off pure theory and KJing. So, we'll ignore the time of day, location, how to talk to the girls, how to get rid of the gyaru-o cockblockers, who and what to take with you, etc. I hope to try this one more time within the next week. If it works another few times without too much failure, I'll give full details.
For the record, I'm 3/5 having sex on the beach. The two I failed on were simple failures. The first failed because it was too sunny and too crowded. I don't think anyone would have sex will all those people around. The next time was at a beach far from home and it was too late. I also didn't talk to the girl like I wanted to and my friends and I weren't in the right position. I didn't really like her, so I don't think I was at my best. The successful three had these things constant. Anyway, here I'm going to discuss the kind of girl who will have sex with you on the beach.
The girl below did have sex on the beach
An Australian friend, nicknamed No.1, messaged me on MSN. The conversation got me thinking about the type of Japanese girls you can bang on the beach (misspells edited):
No.1: hey playa
NB: hey!
No.1: still laying it down on the hOs in J-ville?
NB: haha, I think I might have a new skill!
No.1: what is your skill, man?
NB: I can spot which girls on the beach want to be banged!!
No.1: haha. man, I thought you had that skill from 3 years ago
NB: and bang them right there!
No.1: on the beach??!
NB: ya!
No.1: ...that's not a skill man...your GOD! tell me more!
[NB sends C:\My Documents\My Pictures\Beach\Beach body.jpg]
NB: haha, did it 2x last year too
No.1: ok...so...from the start....you're walking along
No.1: you see some want-to-be-banged girl
NB: uh-huh
No.1: and what...say hi talk to her and stick your in when people are around?
No.1: (regarding the body picture also viewable above) a little mochi mochi but nice. I like the gym types myself
NB: I guess it doesn't really matter what they look like if you bang them on the beach. I don't know, I liked her!
No.1: so what...you bang them in front of their friends and stuff?
NB: hold on a sec, eating
No.1: haha man...you still love the brainless looking ganguros!!! I thought they were extinct!
So, for sex on the beach, your target won't be a tan blond gyaru or any girl rated 8 or above on the NuBreed Rating Scale.*1 (Most tan blonds gyaru with full-on make up and thin bodies will get an 8 if their face is at least average. Why? Because they are the most desirable by most Japanese men and get hit on the most.) From what I've experienced, these girls aren't the easiest targets.
I'm also theorizing that the older, or the more B-class girls won't be the easiest of targets. I'm not talking about the ugly or the English milkers who are going to be simple for gaijin, I'm talking about basically average girls who rate between 4 and 6, maybe even 7, who fit in the B-class, and are a certain type of college girl or OL.
The girls I've found that this works on would be the in-between girls, girls who are semi-A-class, and I think that's so because their looks reflect their personality. If you're totally a tan and blond gyaru, you likely have the same personality of total tan blond gyarus, and if you're a B-class chick you have that B-class personality. And if you're in the middle, you have a middl-er personality. (In Japan stereotypes are more correct than anywhere else.)
(A middle girl could go either way if she's in either a B-class girl group, or a total A-class girl group [there are other A-class besides tan blonds, of course]. But, if these "middle" girls' friends are also middle, they are all pretty much the middle type.)
My friend Thinker, the world's best beach wingman, was able to describe this "middle" far better than I can: "the girls that are trying to be gyaru, but are a little too countryside for it." What he means is that the girls can't be the non-adventurous type; they have to want to try to be like the A-class girls in the in-groups. It seems to make sense.
Therefore, the girls rated around 7 on my scale would be good for this. Or else the 6s who may be younger (and are thus more desirable by Japanese men). We need the adventurous personality here. Since looks can predict personality, it fits.
The regular B-class 4s, 5s, and 6s would be a no-go. Ugly girls, older girls, girls with jobs, milkers, and other girls who I usually rate under 6, on average are most likely to give LMR, even if they are the easiest to get to hang out with you.
The 8s rarely give me LMR (maybe they've have sex so much that they're LMRed out?). However the 8s would be no good for beach sex either because the hot 8s and up are hit on so much that they don't want to hang out with a gaijin, they want the most desirable Japanese guys. (That doesn't explain one of my beach successes, because she's at least 8 no matter how you dice it, but still.)
There are exceptions, of course. The first two "targets" I talked to the other day were kind of the serious type. They talked to me a for a few minutes, but I couldn't move them to another place. They just wanted to sit at the beach house tables and be bitchy. They were the type who have jobs and are likely very popular with the guys at work, so they think they are big sh*t even on the beach, although they are only 7s (which is hot, sure, but certainly not an 8).
So, although these bitchy 7s don't fit with the hottest of girls, they think they do, so they have the same bitchy I'm-the-sh*t type personality usually reserved for the teenage 8s. They are not comparable to the 8s, though, because the coolest guys don't nampa them, but they lie to themselves saying they don't want these guys to hit on them anyway. So, they turn down average guys, they turn down gaijin, and they actually will talk to some of the coolest guys on the beach, however, unfortunately for them, these guys don't like them. So, they go home and the bitchy cycle continues.
That's all I have for now about the "types" of girl. It's all based on the rating scale, which rates girls by looks as well as fashion type which is a direct relation to her popularity amongst Japanese men. The scale is an indispensable tool. And my final conclusion: milkers yes; 4s and 5s you've spent the whole day with them yes; 6s no, 7s yes, 8s no.
*1 The NuBreed Objective Rating Scale rates a girl by fashion and type, not only looks. It basically rates a girl higher depending on how much she would get hit on in comparison to other girls. 8s are what many guys give HB10 or HB12. 9s are rare, even on the beach. If you're seeing more than a few 9s a month, you're not using the scale correctly...or else you're on the beach daily :)
UPDATE (8/10): I'm now 4/6 on getting some sort of action on the beach. A few days ago I got her shirt off, fingered her, and got a nice hand job! ;)
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
So I Bought a Girl a Drink
This is a report I wrote about six months ago. I was at the club with a Japanese friend and had an interesting night, so I wrote it down. I also posted it online as a "field report." Pretty good story! Here it is, mostly unedited:
I got Girl #2 and talked to her for like a minute and she was like, "I'm thirsty." I was like, "Wonderful, Thirsty, go buy yourself an F-ing drink" and she was pouting but I kind of practiced changing the subject talking to girls and like a dog when you hide the treat behind your back she soon forgets what she was thinking about. After like 5-10 minutes, though, unlike a dog, she remembered she was thirsty and started asking for a drink again. I was no way going to buy her a drink, but then I was like, 'wait a minute, I found a stack of drink tickets that expire in 3 hours, might as well be a nice guy and get her something.' As soon as I said okay she latched on to me and was hugging me and holding my hand. After getting the drink we went to dance and she was keen to make out. Was it the fact I bought her the drink that made her like me, or the fact that she had a strong drink in her system....hmmmm
Anyway, I got caught by Girl #1 with Girl #2. Neither were happy. Not like I really cared, so I was like what the hell, I introduced them and changed the subject of the conversation. They talked, then we had another drink. The girls loved each other and I was like, out of the picture. Then Girl #1's friend came. We'll call her Girl #3. She was hotter and drunker than the other two. Girl #1 kissed her. I kissed #2. #1 kissed #2. I kissed #1. #3 kissed #2. Then I got to kiss #3. She was beautiful!! During this we had a couple shots each (all free as I just threw the tickets on the table) and they were talking about having a foursome. I was like OMG! Now, the kissing was nothing special, for real, no tactics, nothing. I mean like, if your grandpa would have been standing there they would have kissed him too. I did make sure no one else was in our corner but us 4, but then again who wouldn't do that! Of course I wanted all three to myself! Might as well get my fun now because...
Then Girl #3 (hot one I didn't know) was dragged off by one of the two orbiters who'd been around her all night. #1 went to be a lesbian or something with #2. I was alone! So, I took home girl #4 after knowing her for like 10 minutes. She was cute too, but had jeans and a T-shirt. I got home and found out she had a BF and she didn't want anything to do with having sex. 'Come all the way here after the club and no sex???' Okay, fine. I took her to the station. She mailed the next day saying she's going to study abroad next week and can't see me because of her BF. One less bitch I gotta worry about.
Then the mails with #1 and #2 continued. #2 didn't remember me or how she hit it off with #1. So I turned my focus to #1 who did remember everything. She really wanted #2's number and I wanted #3's number. I told her that I asked #2 if it was okay to give #1 the number to buy time to ask her to give me #3's number. I can't just give it to her because that's all the leverage I have to get #3! I guess I could go back to the club and find her, and have an IN because I know #1 and made friends with some of her guy friends, but we'll see. You see, #1 was pretty hot, #2 was decent, #3 wasn't dressed sexy, but she was really cute! If the girls would have been more similar in looks I would be playing bird in the hand theory, but that #3 was really good, so I'm gambling!
So, in this story there was no sex, no pickup techniques, nothing special on my part, no nothing. All I did was talk to two girls.
And you see some of these Japanese guys, seconds upon meeting girls, what do they do? They reach into their pockets and pull out their wallet. You know what they're going for. I bet they pull out a 10,000 bill just to be manly even if they have a sufficient supply of 1000s to cover the drinks. You know they're going to be walking around uncomfortable all night with like thirteen small bills making their wallet bulge. Some are so nuts they'll argue with each other about who's going to pay for it! Japanese cultural gesture? Okay, I'll buy it. Showing you're the man because you paid for everyone and you are going to get the hottest girl? I don't think so! Lame.
Now I know that when those guys buy drinks and the girls are all happy and touching the guys it's just an act to show appreciation. I guess it's better than just taking the drink and running, eh? I don't know, I was just shocked at how quickly that girl's attitude changed from semi-interested pickupee to extremely interested horny GF type. All that for 700. I wish I could pay 700 after 10 minutes of last-minute resistance before sex instead, that'd be a better deal. I mean, it'd be a sense pride to break through all of her obstacles by yourself, sure, but when she's too tough you could just be like 'okay, fine, you win. Here, I give up, take this 700 yen and then take your clothes off please, ma'am.' That'd be a darn good rule.
Don't get me wrong, it's not that I think you should never buy a girl a drink, but that if you buy a girl a drink within a few minutes of meeting her it's going to be a waste of money. A girl who lets you take her to another place, or kiss her or is your GF, a second date, an ex, a friend's friend, a guy friend, etc., sure, paying is fine. I have too much pride to pay for the privilege of talking to a hot girl.
Then at the same bar, my friend was getting a girl's number so I moved in to occupy the lonely friend so she didn't cockblock the info exchange. Some decent-locking European girl came from behind making fun of me for picking up Japanese girls. I told her the truth about what I was doing and how the only hot girl in here that I liked had already left (there were other hot girls, but I just wanted to make her mad by showing that isn't cute). Then I proceeded to pick her up. After a while the following conversation came up.
European chick: "If you were planning to buy me a drink now would be a good time because I just ordered a Heineken and haven't paid yet."
NuBreed: (one of a million excuses)
EC: "Okay, fine" (and negative body language turning away from my cheap ass)
NB: "You know, I had this girl the other day and I bought her a drink. She wasn't very nice before that, but after I bought her a drink she was all over me! We were holding hands, making out, etc. It was great! I guess that's how it works in Japan."
EC: "I hate girls like that."
NB: "If I buy you a drink are you going to be all over me?"
EC: "No way!"
NB: "That's why I'm not buying you a drink!" HA!!!
UPDATE: banged #3 two weeks later! Report over!
Night at the Club
So I was at the club last week and Girl #1 who I was trying to take home knew everyone in the club and was going to another bar afterwards so wasn't willing to leave with me. We danced together and made out but then I let her go. She was really into me though because she kept coming to find me and didn't leave when her friends came to talk to her.I got Girl #2 and talked to her for like a minute and she was like, "I'm thirsty." I was like, "Wonderful, Thirsty, go buy yourself an F-ing drink" and she was pouting but I kind of practiced changing the subject talking to girls and like a dog when you hide the treat behind your back she soon forgets what she was thinking about. After like 5-10 minutes, though, unlike a dog, she remembered she was thirsty and started asking for a drink again. I was no way going to buy her a drink, but then I was like, 'wait a minute, I found a stack of drink tickets that expire in 3 hours, might as well be a nice guy and get her something.' As soon as I said okay she latched on to me and was hugging me and holding my hand. After getting the drink we went to dance and she was keen to make out. Was it the fact I bought her the drink that made her like me, or the fact that she had a strong drink in her system....hmmmm
Anyway, I got caught by Girl #1 with Girl #2. Neither were happy. Not like I really cared, so I was like what the hell, I introduced them and changed the subject of the conversation. They talked, then we had another drink. The girls loved each other and I was like, out of the picture. Then Girl #1's friend came. We'll call her Girl #3. She was hotter and drunker than the other two. Girl #1 kissed her. I kissed #2. #1 kissed #2. I kissed #1. #3 kissed #2. Then I got to kiss #3. She was beautiful!! During this we had a couple shots each (all free as I just threw the tickets on the table) and they were talking about having a foursome. I was like OMG! Now, the kissing was nothing special, for real, no tactics, nothing. I mean like, if your grandpa would have been standing there they would have kissed him too. I did make sure no one else was in our corner but us 4, but then again who wouldn't do that! Of course I wanted all three to myself! Might as well get my fun now because...
Then Girl #3 (hot one I didn't know) was dragged off by one of the two orbiters who'd been around her all night. #1 went to be a lesbian or something with #2. I was alone! So, I took home girl #4 after knowing her for like 10 minutes. She was cute too, but had jeans and a T-shirt. I got home and found out she had a BF and she didn't want anything to do with having sex. 'Come all the way here after the club and no sex???' Okay, fine. I took her to the station. She mailed the next day saying she's going to study abroad next week and can't see me because of her BF. One less bitch I gotta worry about.
Then the mails with #1 and #2 continued. #2 didn't remember me or how she hit it off with #1. So I turned my focus to #1 who did remember everything. She really wanted #2's number and I wanted #3's number. I told her that I asked #2 if it was okay to give #1 the number to buy time to ask her to give me #3's number. I can't just give it to her because that's all the leverage I have to get #3! I guess I could go back to the club and find her, and have an IN because I know #1 and made friends with some of her guy friends, but we'll see. You see, #1 was pretty hot, #2 was decent, #3 wasn't dressed sexy, but she was really cute! If the girls would have been more similar in looks I would be playing bird in the hand theory, but that #3 was really good, so I'm gambling!
So, in this story there was no sex, no pickup techniques, nothing special on my part, no nothing. All I did was talk to two girls.
Buying Girls Drinks
Anyway, what I did want to discuss, is buying girls drinks. Since every girl has a probability to flake anyway, no way will I spend 700 yen just to have a chance to talk to her. Ever! But it was cool having the drink tickets to see that even though I bought her the drink, she said she doesn't remember me! It'd be like tossing 700 yen in the river just to try to see the bubbles. The pleasure of talking to her? C'mon, few girls are that hot!And you see some of these Japanese guys, seconds upon meeting girls, what do they do? They reach into their pockets and pull out their wallet. You know what they're going for. I bet they pull out a 10,000 bill just to be manly even if they have a sufficient supply of 1000s to cover the drinks. You know they're going to be walking around uncomfortable all night with like thirteen small bills making their wallet bulge. Some are so nuts they'll argue with each other about who's going to pay for it! Japanese cultural gesture? Okay, I'll buy it. Showing you're the man because you paid for everyone and you are going to get the hottest girl? I don't think so! Lame.
Now I know that when those guys buy drinks and the girls are all happy and touching the guys it's just an act to show appreciation. I guess it's better than just taking the drink and running, eh? I don't know, I was just shocked at how quickly that girl's attitude changed from semi-interested pickupee to extremely interested horny GF type. All that for 700. I wish I could pay 700 after 10 minutes of last-minute resistance before sex instead, that'd be a better deal. I mean, it'd be a sense pride to break through all of her obstacles by yourself, sure, but when she's too tough you could just be like 'okay, fine, you win. Here, I give up, take this 700 yen and then take your clothes off please, ma'am.' That'd be a darn good rule.
Don't get me wrong, it's not that I think you should never buy a girl a drink, but that if you buy a girl a drink within a few minutes of meeting her it's going to be a waste of money. A girl who lets you take her to another place, or kiss her or is your GF, a second date, an ex, a friend's friend, a guy friend, etc., sure, paying is fine. I have too much pride to pay for the privilege of talking to a hot girl.
Two More Drink Stories
I was at this bar and I wanted someone to walk to the locker near the station with me to get my bag. I don't know, I guess I was lonely and didn't want to walk alone. My friends were busy with girls and the couple other girls I hit on were busy. So, I took a girl whose friend was being hit on by my friend. Since she came with me I had no problem buying her a coffee before going back to the bar.Then at the same bar, my friend was getting a girl's number so I moved in to occupy the lonely friend so she didn't cockblock the info exchange. Some decent-locking European girl came from behind making fun of me for picking up Japanese girls. I told her the truth about what I was doing and how the only hot girl in here that I liked had already left (there were other hot girls, but I just wanted to make her mad by showing that isn't cute). Then I proceeded to pick her up. After a while the following conversation came up.
European chick: "If you were planning to buy me a drink now would be a good time because I just ordered a Heineken and haven't paid yet."
NuBreed: (one of a million excuses)
EC: "Okay, fine" (and negative body language turning away from my cheap ass)
NB: "You know, I had this girl the other day and I bought her a drink. She wasn't very nice before that, but after I bought her a drink she was all over me! We were holding hands, making out, etc. It was great! I guess that's how it works in Japan."
EC: "I hate girls like that."
NB: "If I buy you a drink are you going to be all over me?"
EC: "No way!"
NB: "That's why I'm not buying you a drink!" HA!!!
UPDATE: banged #3 two weeks later! Report over!
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
The 0 or 1 Rating Scale (Hot or Not?)
UPDATE: Since I haven't posted photos, I realize the discussion of rating scales might be difficult to follow if you don't know me.
UPDATE 2: Rating Scale explained at very very bottom of page!
Japan Newbie Pickup "Gurus" Getting Japan's Finest?
We all have a certain rating scale we use. Hopefully, we use the same Objective Looks Scale, which doesn't take personal preferences into consideration, rather, it shows how society as a whole views a given girl. At the time of writing this, though, I haven't printed much detail regarding this scale. Not knowing it makes knowing what an 8 is difficult, but I encourage you to read on.
I was recently reading an online discussion about pickup gurus from the US coming to Japan to teach foreigners here how to pickup Japanese girls. The argument was obvious: how can this guy teach anyone how to pick up Japanese girls if he's never lived in Japan? Allegedly these guys can come to Japan start making out with the hottest girl on the street within 30 minutes--all without speaking Japanese! And they're even getting girls who don't speak English! What?
Do you believe the above? I do. I totally believe that these guys come to Japan can take "hot" girls to the love hotel within 30 minutes. They do this stuff for a living, and they're obviously good at it. Can you or I do this too?
Well, to answer this question, we must look at the definition of "hottest girl on the street." Who's judging? Is it the guru who's never been to Japan? Is it the guy who's only been in Japan a year? Or are Japanese guys in their 20s judging? Or how about I do the judging?
Heck, you know, when I first came to Japan, and for my first year or two here, every girl seemed hot. Do you want to see my pictures? I bet you would! But, I'm not showing them! You'd laugh me off the Internet! I didn't nail fat pigs, or no 1s, but looking at my pictures we'd see some 4s and maybe even some 3s. There were a few 7s, sure, but the average was not even close to what I get now.
Think, we can change the hotness of girls we get just by how we think. So, although the girls were uglier back then, some guys could actually be in a situation where they were actually happier getting the ugly girls, because at the time, they didn't know they were ugly! And to tell you the truth, I'd say I was much happier banging a 5 back then than I am banging an 8 today. Ignorance is bliss, huh?
So, I think you've guessed it by now. Our "hottest girl on the street," as judged by newbies, is on the Objective Looks Scale, a very small deviation from average. And if you don't know the corresponding number here, it's 5, halfway between 0 and 10. We're talking 6s and below that they get.*
So there you have it, your questions answered. Do 7s and 8s speak English? Do 7s and 8s sit around listening to a gaijin ramble on in English although they don't understand? Are the real hottest girls on the street--the 9s that is...the girls I see less than once a month--really so abundant that guys can spend a week in Japan and get two of them? Do English teachers, those who come to Japan for a year and go home and tell the world how easy Japanese girls are, come in contact and have sex with these 9s on a regular basis?
C'mon, I don't have to answer these questions, right?
Rating 0s and 1s
So, for my own use and satisfaction, I want to start rating girls 0s and 1s. It's simple, and it has its uses. Let's take these Japanese newbies and these gurus. Let's throw them in with my drinking buddy who takes home a chunky 3 every weekend. Now, these guys, granted, have sex with a lot of girls, right? I mean, hell, each time I go to a three-hour international party I end up banging about 2 girls. Now, what about these guys who go there every weekend! Hell, they might get two or more girls a week!
Now lets remember that our 8s NEVER attend these parties. In Osaka, in the few parties I've been to this year, I've seen one (yes, one) 7.5. She's been to every party I've been to. And she speaks no English.
So, let's add these girls up. You have a 4, a 5, two 6s, a 5.5, a 4.5, and even a 7. What's you score? 0! That's right, on this scale, only the 8s and 9s (and of course 9.5s if you ever see them) get a rating. And since there's no level of rating, that rating is a simple 1. And if the girl doesn't make the cut, she's a 0, and therefore doesn't count. A WOT. 仲間入らない.
The obvious cut-off should be 7.5, because that's halfway between 5 and 10. However, if that 7.5 is halfway, couldn't she go either way? A 8 is a 1 for sure, and a 7 is a 0 for sure--and that's too bad because 7s are pretty cute--but the 7.5 can go either way. So, use your best judgment. However, if you ask me, I'll probably say no. 0!! :)
Summary and Conclusion
Some guys who have been in Japan only a year or two, or not at all, seem to think that getting a 5 is the same as getting a 9. They think there is the same skill involved, and that you don't need Japanese to get a 9, because everyone is a 9. For them, ignorance is bliss.
To protect ourselves from these claims, and to keep from following the wrong leaders, we need to look at the Objective Ratings of these girls. If she's in the top quarter of the rating scale, meaning over a 7.5, then she gets a 1.** If you're taking advice how to get hot girls from a guy who's banged nothing but 0s, then, although the guy might know his women, he doesn't know hot women.
If you meet a guy who has over 1 point in his life on Japanese girls, then you might like to get to know him more. If he shows you a second picture and gets another point, giving him 2 points, then he is very likely a leader to be followed. 5 points? We're not going to even discuss that. Sure, 5 points is for sure possible. In a few months even. But, I'd just like to challenge the world to see how many guys with 5 points are out there. I say not too many.
* Remember, 4s, 5s and 6s are all pretty common. A 4 is your basic plain girl. Not cute at all, but not gross. A 6 would be seen as cute by anyone. She's not going to stop traffic though. Remember, makeup could really doctor these ratings, and that's okay, because we're judging external appearance only. We keep personal preference ratings to ourselves--"I like girls who look good without makeup" etc.
** I'm not talking about the top 25% of the population. If you take all girls between 18 and 30, then probably only 2% would be 8s and 9s. If you you take all girls 18-25, then it will probably be 4% or so. Note these are simply ballpark figures. I guessed.
UPDATE 2: Rating Scale explained at very very bottom of page!
Japan Newbie Pickup "Gurus" Getting Japan's Finest?
We all have a certain rating scale we use. Hopefully, we use the same Objective Looks Scale, which doesn't take personal preferences into consideration, rather, it shows how society as a whole views a given girl. At the time of writing this, though, I haven't printed much detail regarding this scale. Not knowing it makes knowing what an 8 is difficult, but I encourage you to read on.
I was recently reading an online discussion about pickup gurus from the US coming to Japan to teach foreigners here how to pickup Japanese girls. The argument was obvious: how can this guy teach anyone how to pick up Japanese girls if he's never lived in Japan? Allegedly these guys can come to Japan start making out with the hottest girl on the street within 30 minutes--all without speaking Japanese! And they're even getting girls who don't speak English! What?
Do you believe the above? I do. I totally believe that these guys come to Japan can take "hot" girls to the love hotel within 30 minutes. They do this stuff for a living, and they're obviously good at it. Can you or I do this too?
Well, to answer this question, we must look at the definition of "hottest girl on the street." Who's judging? Is it the guru who's never been to Japan? Is it the guy who's only been in Japan a year? Or are Japanese guys in their 20s judging? Or how about I do the judging?
Heck, you know, when I first came to Japan, and for my first year or two here, every girl seemed hot. Do you want to see my pictures? I bet you would! But, I'm not showing them! You'd laugh me off the Internet! I didn't nail fat pigs, or no 1s, but looking at my pictures we'd see some 4s and maybe even some 3s. There were a few 7s, sure, but the average was not even close to what I get now.
Think, we can change the hotness of girls we get just by how we think. So, although the girls were uglier back then, some guys could actually be in a situation where they were actually happier getting the ugly girls, because at the time, they didn't know they were ugly! And to tell you the truth, I'd say I was much happier banging a 5 back then than I am banging an 8 today. Ignorance is bliss, huh?
So, I think you've guessed it by now. Our "hottest girl on the street," as judged by newbies, is on the Objective Looks Scale, a very small deviation from average. And if you don't know the corresponding number here, it's 5, halfway between 0 and 10. We're talking 6s and below that they get.*
So there you have it, your questions answered. Do 7s and 8s speak English? Do 7s and 8s sit around listening to a gaijin ramble on in English although they don't understand? Are the real hottest girls on the street--the 9s that is...the girls I see less than once a month--really so abundant that guys can spend a week in Japan and get two of them? Do English teachers, those who come to Japan for a year and go home and tell the world how easy Japanese girls are, come in contact and have sex with these 9s on a regular basis?
C'mon, I don't have to answer these questions, right?
Rating 0s and 1s
So, for my own use and satisfaction, I want to start rating girls 0s and 1s. It's simple, and it has its uses. Let's take these Japanese newbies and these gurus. Let's throw them in with my drinking buddy who takes home a chunky 3 every weekend. Now, these guys, granted, have sex with a lot of girls, right? I mean, hell, each time I go to a three-hour international party I end up banging about 2 girls. Now, what about these guys who go there every weekend! Hell, they might get two or more girls a week!
Now lets remember that our 8s NEVER attend these parties. In Osaka, in the few parties I've been to this year, I've seen one (yes, one) 7.5. She's been to every party I've been to. And she speaks no English.
So, let's add these girls up. You have a 4, a 5, two 6s, a 5.5, a 4.5, and even a 7. What's you score? 0! That's right, on this scale, only the 8s and 9s (and of course 9.5s if you ever see them) get a rating. And since there's no level of rating, that rating is a simple 1. And if the girl doesn't make the cut, she's a 0, and therefore doesn't count. A WOT. 仲間入らない.
The obvious cut-off should be 7.5, because that's halfway between 5 and 10. However, if that 7.5 is halfway, couldn't she go either way? A 8 is a 1 for sure, and a 7 is a 0 for sure--and that's too bad because 7s are pretty cute--but the 7.5 can go either way. So, use your best judgment. However, if you ask me, I'll probably say no. 0!! :)
Summary and Conclusion
Some guys who have been in Japan only a year or two, or not at all, seem to think that getting a 5 is the same as getting a 9. They think there is the same skill involved, and that you don't need Japanese to get a 9, because everyone is a 9. For them, ignorance is bliss.
To protect ourselves from these claims, and to keep from following the wrong leaders, we need to look at the Objective Ratings of these girls. If she's in the top quarter of the rating scale, meaning over a 7.5, then she gets a 1.** If you're taking advice how to get hot girls from a guy who's banged nothing but 0s, then, although the guy might know his women, he doesn't know hot women.
If you meet a guy who has over 1 point in his life on Japanese girls, then you might like to get to know him more. If he shows you a second picture and gets another point, giving him 2 points, then he is very likely a leader to be followed. 5 points? We're not going to even discuss that. Sure, 5 points is for sure possible. In a few months even. But, I'd just like to challenge the world to see how many guys with 5 points are out there. I say not too many.
* Remember, 4s, 5s and 6s are all pretty common. A 4 is your basic plain girl. Not cute at all, but not gross. A 6 would be seen as cute by anyone. She's not going to stop traffic though. Remember, makeup could really doctor these ratings, and that's okay, because we're judging external appearance only. We keep personal preference ratings to ourselves--"I like girls who look good without makeup" etc.
** I'm not talking about the top 25% of the population. If you take all girls between 18 and 30, then probably only 2% would be 8s and 9s. If you you take all girls 18-25, then it will probably be 4% or so. Note these are simply ballpark figures. I guessed.
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Instant Touching on Date (Kino)
If you know me you'll know that I don't touch girls like most guys do. I don't touch them at all when I pick them up because I personally feel it's creepy. I touch them a bit on dates, I guess, but nothing high-tech or previously planned. I know that a lot of guys want to start off touching girls because they progress their dates by doing so. A little different than my style, but I have a nice way to touch when you first meet a girl.
As I said, I don't do this on a first date, but I'll tell you about a second date with a girl who I'd lost on previously (she didn't even come over). For the second date she came to my usual date meeting spot. There were few people around because it was a rainy day, but at the moment we met up it wasn't raining so she didn't need to hold her umbrella up. I was late as usual (I've yet to discover facts about whether being late is a plus or minus, but I'm going to say it's a plus). Since we'd already been holding hands on the previous date, I walked up to her and grabbed both of her hands/arms while facing her and apologized for being late. Since I touched her from the start she was cuddly for the rest of the date (we ended up at my house for sex but that's another story).
But, most girls don't want to be touched in front of people like that, right? Especially by a gaijin. Some might, some might not, but, here's a simple way to make her feel comfortable: arrange a meeting spot where there are few people. The rain in the story above helped me notice this. A week or so later I met a girl who I met in a rushed 3-4 minute pickup and it was 2 months between that day and this first date. We were supposed to meet in front of a busy store with a Starbucks and a million people passing by. I was there first. So, I mailed her and told her that I'm standing around the side of the building because there are too many people in front and I might not remember her face with all those people.* She came around the side and I could have grabbed her hands had I wanted to (at this point I seriously don't remember if I did hold her hands/arms or not, but I was at least in a position to).
And that's it. A simple changing of the meeting location can open the doors for touching.
*Telling a girl you don't remember her face - does not piss her off it you say it the right way. If you don't know how to say it, or if you don't know how to change the subject while still holding your ground (to remain strong and respectable) while still deterring arguments, you might be better off not saying this. If you know how to say it while making her a bit upset and then changing her mood to happy quickly, then this is a definite benefit. Why? Well, from now on you no longer have to worry about slips of the tongue, as you've already had one would-be altercation and you overcame it. Example: crazy-man Mike Tyson threatens someone: "I'm going to F-ing kill you and rape your children!" No one bats an eye because they expect that from him. Church-going Evander Holyfield: "I hate Mike Tyson and want to hurt him badly." Holyfield would never hear the end of criticism about his brutal comment.
As I said, I don't do this on a first date, but I'll tell you about a second date with a girl who I'd lost on previously (she didn't even come over). For the second date she came to my usual date meeting spot. There were few people around because it was a rainy day, but at the moment we met up it wasn't raining so she didn't need to hold her umbrella up. I was late as usual (I've yet to discover facts about whether being late is a plus or minus, but I'm going to say it's a plus). Since we'd already been holding hands on the previous date, I walked up to her and grabbed both of her hands/arms while facing her and apologized for being late. Since I touched her from the start she was cuddly for the rest of the date (we ended up at my house for sex but that's another story).
But, most girls don't want to be touched in front of people like that, right? Especially by a gaijin. Some might, some might not, but, here's a simple way to make her feel comfortable: arrange a meeting spot where there are few people. The rain in the story above helped me notice this. A week or so later I met a girl who I met in a rushed 3-4 minute pickup and it was 2 months between that day and this first date. We were supposed to meet in front of a busy store with a Starbucks and a million people passing by. I was there first. So, I mailed her and told her that I'm standing around the side of the building because there are too many people in front and I might not remember her face with all those people.* She came around the side and I could have grabbed her hands had I wanted to (at this point I seriously don't remember if I did hold her hands/arms or not, but I was at least in a position to).
And that's it. A simple changing of the meeting location can open the doors for touching.
*Telling a girl you don't remember her face - does not piss her off it you say it the right way. If you don't know how to say it, or if you don't know how to change the subject while still holding your ground (to remain strong and respectable) while still deterring arguments, you might be better off not saying this. If you know how to say it while making her a bit upset and then changing her mood to happy quickly, then this is a definite benefit. Why? Well, from now on you no longer have to worry about slips of the tongue, as you've already had one would-be altercation and you overcame it. Example: crazy-man Mike Tyson threatens someone: "I'm going to F-ing kill you and rape your children!" No one bats an eye because they expect that from him. Church-going Evander Holyfield: "I hate Mike Tyson and want to hurt him badly." Holyfield would never hear the end of criticism about his brutal comment.
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Losing in the Best Love Hotel!??
I was just on the phone with a friend and we were discussing apartments. Since I love Japan (-ese girls), I want to always have an apartment in Japan, even if I decide to leave for an extended time period. What's the best bet, a decent sized room in a nice building downtown for $9000 a year, a small room in an older building a few subway stops from the heart of the city for $4000, or something in between? Personally I need a clean building in a good location, sacrificing size. Or I can sacrifice the size of my bank account and have everything.
This is what we were discussing and what would be best for guys like us who, even though we may leave the country for work or other engagements in our home countries, we will be visiting Japan for life. Then, we started talking about love hotels (hotels rented by the house for the purpose of sex). There's one in particular that stands out in my mind. My purpose of going was for sex with the girl, but while I was there I had a very moving, emotional experience.
I met the girl at a party and had a date with her a week later. I played it really smooth at first. We were supposed to meet at 5:30, but I was purposely late, so I mailed her and told her to wait in Starbucks. She did. I showed up 20 minutes later and sat in Starbucks talking to her. I didn't even order. We talked 15-20 minutes and that's all the time it took to convince her to come to my house. So, to get her to my house, this date cost me exactly $0.00.
In my house we had a good time, but with my entire bag of tricks I wasn't able to have sex with this girl. I got my hand in her pants a bit and got her shirt off, but in the end, I lost. Usually I don't date girls again who don't let me have sex with them, especially if I've already seen most of their body, but this girl's body was fantastic! So, I had to see her again.
Since we got along well and since (for some odd reason) just banging wasn't on my mind, since she has a car and I don't (no one has a car in Japan), I decided to have her take me to a special restaurant that you kind of a need a car to go to. I need my American food every so often, and she was going to help me get it!
I got the food, and then we were deciding what to do. It was around 10 or 11 pm, and she couldn't stay out all night, but I was thinking that we could go to the love hotel. I usually get all new girls in my house and rarely go to a hotel because they're around $100, but for some reason I felt like going. I tried talking her into it in the car after dinner but she wasn't too keen on the idea. I would have been different if I were driving, but I wasn't! I finally got her to go, but on the premise that we wouldn't be having sex. I took my chances and we went....
The hotel itself was amazing! Driving, we picked among the coolest-looking of several hotels we saw along the road. And of course we picked the coolest room. Inside the room the first thing you notice is a closet to your left. Okay, maybe you wouldn't notice this but I did. It's a closet, and it also opens into the hallway for room service. Great! When you walk forward there's a full-size sink area complete with towels, bathrobes, toothbrushes, hair gel, combs, hair tonic, the works.
Turning left, you see a glass door leading into the huge shower room. In the shower room is the jacuzzi. When you turn the lights off in the shower room and outside room you can turn on the lights in the bottom of them jacuzzi itself with light up the water with a range of different colors you can choose from. There's a TV in the shower room covered by a waterproof case. Off of the shower/jacuzzi room there's a small closet-size room with another glass door and two plastic chairs. It's a sauna! There's another TV in there too. This place is great!
....Since she said we weren't going to have sex, we spent time in the main room relaxing and drinking coffee and alcohol. We planned to take separate baths, and she went first. After she was in the bath I simply undressed and got in too. She was okay with it because the bubbles from the bubblebath covered her whole body and I couldn't see her chest. I changed the jacuzzi lights from red to the brighter light blue and stirred the bubbles to get a few peeks....
Now, if you're at the main sink with the glass door to the shower room on your left, you can go right, and go through the main solid door in the living room/bedroom area. Amazing! First you get a pachinko (slot) machine and a massage chair. I didn't play the slot machine thing but the chair was free and we both got massages.
The chair and the slot machine were in their own little area, next to which was a small living room area. Here you had a matching leather soft and chair, a table, and a wide screen TV with a Playstation and karaoke machine hooked up to it. There were a million channels to watch, too.
...I didn't get any action or even much touching in the bathtub, so we drank and sang karaoke in the TV area. We then went over to the bed area and pulled down the large projector screen and played with the various functions our all-purpose remote gave us. We could control the lights, TV, temperature, karaoke, etc. with this wireless device....
The bed was huge and the fourth TV was near it. The projector screen would be the fifth TV. The bed wasn't vibrating, but the marble counter/headboard between it and the neighboring massage/slot machine area was enough to make me happy.
The whole place was clean and wonderful. Since I've been thinking a lot about my future lately - about where I'll live and what I'll do for money - this hotel really got to me. What is the most fun thing in the world to do? I don't know, but spending time in this hotel was the most fun I had in a long time. Everything was so clean and fun. If it would have been $300 a night I'd still want to go again.
....After our bath, drinking, and singing, I lured her into the bed. We only had bathrobes on. I'm pretty sure she was planning to have sex since she came to the love hotel with me, but since it was around 2 am, and since she said she had to leave soon, and since she said we weren't going to have sex, I was kind of worried. I was actually planning to stay in the hotel alone and take the train home the next day if she left!
I got her bathrobe off and finally fully saw the body I wanted to see. Amazing! I'm so glad I ended up seeing her again. Totally shaved, too. That's rare in Japan. I started putting the moves on her but she wanted to talk. I don't mind talking but not laying in bed naked with a girl I haven't had sex with yet! I didn't want to, but I had no choice: I had to talk!
This girl who came right to my house was a lot harder than I first though. Here we were about 3 hours into our stay in the love hotel and no sex. Was I going to fail? No. Finally, she gave it up. I was relieved. I usually don't do this, but we had sex for about 2 hours in all imaginable positions. It was good. She took me home around 6 am. As it turns out she couldn't stay the night only because she had to have the car back by morning. 6 am was fine, I guess.
That was a few months ago. I haven't seen her since. Not that I wouldn't, but I'm not a guy who needs sex - I'm a guy who needs new girls - so I'm not going to go out of my way to try to see her again. I did keep in touch with her and told her we should hang out again, and she was like yeah, but nothing came of it. Maybe I'll shoot her a mail....
And that's basically it. I liked this place so much that I figured out that I could live there for $36,500 per year. I could probably get it for half of that if I made a deal with the owner, depending on how much business the room gets. But, why live there? I mean, I could just go there anytime for $100. Click on the photo above. It'll open up bigger in a new window. See if you get the same emotional feeling I did. It's a rainy Sunday afternoon right now. Maybe I'll call someone...
This is what we were discussing and what would be best for guys like us who, even though we may leave the country for work or other engagements in our home countries, we will be visiting Japan for life. Then, we started talking about love hotels (hotels rented by the house for the purpose of sex). There's one in particular that stands out in my mind. My purpose of going was for sex with the girl, but while I was there I had a very moving, emotional experience.
I met the girl at a party and had a date with her a week later. I played it really smooth at first. We were supposed to meet at 5:30, but I was purposely late, so I mailed her and told her to wait in Starbucks. She did. I showed up 20 minutes later and sat in Starbucks talking to her. I didn't even order. We talked 15-20 minutes and that's all the time it took to convince her to come to my house. So, to get her to my house, this date cost me exactly $0.00.
In my house we had a good time, but with my entire bag of tricks I wasn't able to have sex with this girl. I got my hand in her pants a bit and got her shirt off, but in the end, I lost. Usually I don't date girls again who don't let me have sex with them, especially if I've already seen most of their body, but this girl's body was fantastic! So, I had to see her again.
Since we got along well and since (for some odd reason) just banging wasn't on my mind, since she has a car and I don't (no one has a car in Japan), I decided to have her take me to a special restaurant that you kind of a need a car to go to. I need my American food every so often, and she was going to help me get it!
I got the food, and then we were deciding what to do. It was around 10 or 11 pm, and she couldn't stay out all night, but I was thinking that we could go to the love hotel. I usually get all new girls in my house and rarely go to a hotel because they're around $100, but for some reason I felt like going. I tried talking her into it in the car after dinner but she wasn't too keen on the idea. I would have been different if I were driving, but I wasn't! I finally got her to go, but on the premise that we wouldn't be having sex. I took my chances and we went....
The hotel itself was amazing! Driving, we picked among the coolest-looking of several hotels we saw along the road. And of course we picked the coolest room. Inside the room the first thing you notice is a closet to your left. Okay, maybe you wouldn't notice this but I did. It's a closet, and it also opens into the hallway for room service. Great! When you walk forward there's a full-size sink area complete with towels, bathrobes, toothbrushes, hair gel, combs, hair tonic, the works.
Turning left, you see a glass door leading into the huge shower room. In the shower room is the jacuzzi. When you turn the lights off in the shower room and outside room you can turn on the lights in the bottom of them jacuzzi itself with light up the water with a range of different colors you can choose from. There's a TV in the shower room covered by a waterproof case. Off of the shower/jacuzzi room there's a small closet-size room with another glass door and two plastic chairs. It's a sauna! There's another TV in there too. This place is great!
....Since she said we weren't going to have sex, we spent time in the main room relaxing and drinking coffee and alcohol. We planned to take separate baths, and she went first. After she was in the bath I simply undressed and got in too. She was okay with it because the bubbles from the bubblebath covered her whole body and I couldn't see her chest. I changed the jacuzzi lights from red to the brighter light blue and stirred the bubbles to get a few peeks....
Now, if you're at the main sink with the glass door to the shower room on your left, you can go right, and go through the main solid door in the living room/bedroom area. Amazing! First you get a pachinko (slot) machine and a massage chair. I didn't play the slot machine thing but the chair was free and we both got massages.
The chair and the slot machine were in their own little area, next to which was a small living room area. Here you had a matching leather soft and chair, a table, and a wide screen TV with a Playstation and karaoke machine hooked up to it. There were a million channels to watch, too.
...I didn't get any action or even much touching in the bathtub, so we drank and sang karaoke in the TV area. We then went over to the bed area and pulled down the large projector screen and played with the various functions our all-purpose remote gave us. We could control the lights, TV, temperature, karaoke, etc. with this wireless device....
The bed was huge and the fourth TV was near it. The projector screen would be the fifth TV. The bed wasn't vibrating, but the marble counter/headboard between it and the neighboring massage/slot machine area was enough to make me happy.
The whole place was clean and wonderful. Since I've been thinking a lot about my future lately - about where I'll live and what I'll do for money - this hotel really got to me. What is the most fun thing in the world to do? I don't know, but spending time in this hotel was the most fun I had in a long time. Everything was so clean and fun. If it would have been $300 a night I'd still want to go again.
....After our bath, drinking, and singing, I lured her into the bed. We only had bathrobes on. I'm pretty sure she was planning to have sex since she came to the love hotel with me, but since it was around 2 am, and since she said she had to leave soon, and since she said we weren't going to have sex, I was kind of worried. I was actually planning to stay in the hotel alone and take the train home the next day if she left!
I got her bathrobe off and finally fully saw the body I wanted to see. Amazing! I'm so glad I ended up seeing her again. Totally shaved, too. That's rare in Japan. I started putting the moves on her but she wanted to talk. I don't mind talking but not laying in bed naked with a girl I haven't had sex with yet! I didn't want to, but I had no choice: I had to talk!
This girl who came right to my house was a lot harder than I first though. Here we were about 3 hours into our stay in the love hotel and no sex. Was I going to fail? No. Finally, she gave it up. I was relieved. I usually don't do this, but we had sex for about 2 hours in all imaginable positions. It was good. She took me home around 6 am. As it turns out she couldn't stay the night only because she had to have the car back by morning. 6 am was fine, I guess.
That was a few months ago. I haven't seen her since. Not that I wouldn't, but I'm not a guy who needs sex - I'm a guy who needs new girls - so I'm not going to go out of my way to try to see her again. I did keep in touch with her and told her we should hang out again, and she was like yeah, but nothing came of it. Maybe I'll shoot her a mail....
And that's basically it. I liked this place so much that I figured out that I could live there for $36,500 per year. I could probably get it for half of that if I made a deal with the owner, depending on how much business the room gets. But, why live there? I mean, I could just go there anytime for $100. Click on the photo above. It'll open up bigger in a new window. See if you get the same emotional feeling I did. It's a rainy Sunday afternoon right now. Maybe I'll call someone...
Friday, June 6, 2008
Blocking the Female Cockblocker
This is a report on a girl who I haven't slept with yet. I met her last week at a party in Kobe. I'll show you a few techniques I used and we'll see if they end up successful in the end! Set your browser to be able to read Japanese text to get the full effect. I'll translate for those who can't read the text.
So, I got to the party a little early. I went with my friend Mild Seven. I met a cute Australian girl who was also there early and even though I'm into Japanese girls, I've only been with a few Australians and it's nice to have a little white meat now and then. She's petite like Japanese girls so I talked to her a bit and exchanged info with the premise that we'd meet up sometime soon.
My friend who was throwing the party, code-name Thinker, invited some of his students. They're all 19-20 and go to a certain college. I picked up the cutest one and sat next to her leg to leg while playing video games at the party. We took a lot of pictures together when she was practically sitting on my lap. She seemed keen so I got her information too.
After that I pretty much ignored the two girls as I was done with them. The next step is a Level 1 date and after that sex. While I was enjoying hanging out with my friends, though, Australian girl and Japanese student girl got to talking and THEY also exchanged information! However, I didn't find this out until this afternoon, over a week later.
I mailed the Australian and tried to get her to come to Osaka but she wasn't too keen on writing back and when she did she said she was busy. That's okay, I gave her time. The Japanese girl, who Thinker was also mailing, however, seemed pretty keen and although she's busy, we discussed times to meet. Now neither of these girls seem like a sure thing, so I'm not too worried about mailing them daily or anything, but I'll shoot them a mail every other day for up to a month if I think I still have a chance. After that I might give up, and send them a mail after a month or two, just in case if they have a change of heart. Anyway...
I mailed the Japanese girl asking of she was free Saturday or Monday. Her reply was pretty sincere:
What!? Sh*t! That's not good! I mean, not that I really care if the yfind out I'm going for both of them, the key to winning is not giving a damn, but I'd rather them not find out. In a way I'm kind of glad they're meeting because I enjoy the drama. And I have nothing to lose except an Australian 6.5 and a Japanese 7.
I decided to see how far I can take it. How can I do something fun and risky to try to get dates with BOTH of them? My reply:
I thought it was a pretty damn good lie if I do say so myself! I know that the conversation about me is going to come up, and I'm pretty sure that they are each going to say that I'm trying to meet them. So, what do I do? I lied to the Japanese girl saying that my friend likes the Australian girl and that I'm trying to hook them up. But don't tell her this! Note how I changed the subject to make it seem insignificant. Changing the subject and lying...tools of the gods.
So, when the Australian girl tells the Japanese girl that I'm trying to meet her, I'm hoping that the Japanese girl won't continue the subject because she's sworn secrecy! I'm hoping that the Japanese girl doesn't tell the Aust that she's going to date me! If she does, oh well, I like her anyway, and I don't expect to get more than one of the two anyway.
She replies shortly after:
Success! So far so good at least! We'll have to see how tomorrow goes to know for sure. But, she's asking me when I'm free, so at least my lie came in under her radar! I replied telling her some nonsense about my day, and told her a day next weekend when I'm free. She only gets one day to choose from this time. If she's keen she'll take it or choose the other day--which I'm actually busy.
Oops, glad this a blog. I didn't even mention anything about the title. It's should read "Blocking the PROBABLE Female Cockblocker" right? Well, my friend had a similar situation where the white girl he made out with was actually mailing the Japanese girl he was on a date with tell her what a bad guy he is! So, I'm taking precautions! :)
I'll update this when more unfolds!
So, I got to the party a little early. I went with my friend Mild Seven. I met a cute Australian girl who was also there early and even though I'm into Japanese girls, I've only been with a few Australians and it's nice to have a little white meat now and then. She's petite like Japanese girls so I talked to her a bit and exchanged info with the premise that we'd meet up sometime soon.
My friend who was throwing the party, code-name Thinker, invited some of his students. They're all 19-20 and go to a certain college. I picked up the cutest one and sat next to her leg to leg while playing video games at the party. We took a lot of pictures together when she was practically sitting on my lap. She seemed keen so I got her information too.
After that I pretty much ignored the two girls as I was done with them. The next step is a Level 1 date and after that sex. While I was enjoying hanging out with my friends, though, Australian girl and Japanese student girl got to talking and THEY also exchanged information! However, I didn't find this out until this afternoon, over a week later.
I mailed the Australian and tried to get her to come to Osaka but she wasn't too keen on writing back and when she did she said she was busy. That's okay, I gave her time. The Japanese girl, who Thinker was also mailing, however, seemed pretty keen and although she's busy, we discussed times to meet. Now neither of these girls seem like a sure thing, so I'm not too worried about mailing them daily or anything, but I'll shoot them a mail every other day for up to a month if I think I still have a chance. After that I might give up, and send them a mail after a month or two, just in case if they have a change of heart. Anyway...
I mailed the Japanese girl asking of she was free Saturday or Monday. Her reply was pretty sincere:
遅くなりました！
こめんね↓土曜は学校の就職説明会があって、月曜はバイトだよ～ （泣）
(Sorry to write back late! I'm busy at school this Saturday and work on Monday [cry])
明日[Australian Girl]とご飯行くよ☆
(I'm having dinner with the Australian girl tomorrow)
What!? Sh*t! That's not good! I mean, not that I really care if the yfind out I'm going for both of them, the key to winning is not giving a damn, but I'd rather them not find out. In a way I'm kind of glad they're meeting because I enjoy the drama. And I have nothing to lose except an Australian 6.5 and a Japanese 7.
I decided to see how far I can take it. How can I do something fun and risky to try to get dates with BOTH of them? My reply:
busy girlやな！[Aust girl's name]可愛いやろう？[she]のことがいいと思ってる友達がいるから今度合わせてあげる！絶対言わないでな！(｀_´)
(Wow, you're busy! The Aust girl is pretty damn cute, eh? Actually my friend has the hots for her. So, next time I'm going to hook them up together. Don't mention anything to her!!)
てか俺新しい携帯買うねん。ポイントいっぱいあるから無料やって！外国も使えるやつにする！＼(^O^)／
(Anyway, I'm gonna buy a new phone. I have my cell phone points saved up so they told me it'll be free! I'm gonna get on I can use other countries too!)
I thought it was a pretty damn good lie if I do say so myself! I know that the conversation about me is going to come up, and I'm pretty sure that they are each going to say that I'm trying to meet them. So, what do I do? I lied to the Japanese girl saying that my friend likes the Australian girl and that I'm trying to hook them up. But don't tell her this! Note how I changed the subject to make it seem insignificant. Changing the subject and lying...tools of the gods.
So, when the Australian girl tells the Japanese girl that I'm trying to meet her, I'm hoping that the Japanese girl won't continue the subject because she's sworn secrecy! I'm hoping that the Japanese girl doesn't tell the Aust that she's going to date me! If she does, oh well, I like her anyway, and I don't expect to get more than one of the two anyway.
She replies shortly after:
ＯＫ！[Aust girl]いい子やな★☆明日は楽しんでくる♪
またその友達にも会わせてな♪つぎいつがヒマ？
(Ok! She's a good girl! I'm looking forward to seeing her tomorrow. You should hook her up with that friend who likes her. When are you free next?)
Success! So far so good at least! We'll have to see how tomorrow goes to know for sure. But, she's asking me when I'm free, so at least my lie came in under her radar! I replied telling her some nonsense about my day, and told her a day next weekend when I'm free. She only gets one day to choose from this time. If she's keen she'll take it or choose the other day--which I'm actually busy.
Oops, glad this a blog. I didn't even mention anything about the title. It's should read "Blocking the PROBABLE Female Cockblocker" right? Well, my friend had a similar situation where the white girl he made out with was actually mailing the Japanese girl he was on a date with tell her what a bad guy he is! So, I'm taking precautions! :)
I'll update this when more unfolds!
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Keep Staff Girls Comfortable at PU
Here are few tips to keep the staff of clothing or accessory stores comfortable while you pick them up. These tips are for general situations, hunting objective 7.5s and up, around 20 years old, in small mall/shotengai boutiques...
- There will be 2-5 girls working there. The other staff are your obstacles. If they are watching you hit on their co-worker, you'll likely lose big-time; unless if the girl(s) is average in looks (a 5), over 30, or the manager.
- If you get eye contact, which is likely at a store, then you have to go when the timing is right, which is a few seconds within the eye-contact, however, you can choose when first eye contact occurs by not looking at her directly until you're ready to go to her.
- The other customers are your friends. Use them to your advantage. Talk to the girl when the customers are near the other staff. The staff may not bother you, but you're not the important one here, she is. And you must keep her comfortable.
- To keep it from looking like a pickup and to keep the other staff from bothering you or looking and embarrassing her, keep your body turned away from the girl, stand facing the same direction as her, or keep moving around and looking at things.
- It's 50/50 that she won't have her phone on her. Business cards are ideal but I have a low reply rate, so I only use them when absolutely necessary (which is why I have a low reply rate!). To get her info you should quickly use infra-red, or just type her number into your phone or yours into hers (in this case press send or else you've just wasted your time).
- If she doesn't have the phone, and since getting it may get her in trouble/embarrassed, have her go to the counter and write down her info. If other cock-blocking staff are there go to the counter with her, because they could stop her from writing it down. If you are there, although she's embarrassed, she will write it, but she'll no longer be embarrassed when you mail her later that night.
A-Class & B-Class Girls
Until I made up this comparison and separated girls into A and B class, I was having a few problems categorizing women. First, you can never know what kind of girl someone is talking about with a number on the Personal Looks Rating Scale. All guys rate girls differently even if we use the same scale (which is why I created the Objective Looks Scale. See Glossary). Two, I find myself always talking to one type of girl, but before the A and B-class categorization, they were all kind of lumped together and judged on facial beauty alone. This really helps put things into perspective. Three, you can learn so much about a girl, or her friends, simply by placing her in a class. Four, the term "gyaru" is has too many interpretations. So, here is my simplification.
The A-class consists mainly of girls dressing similar to one conforming to a specific kei, or decided fashion style. This includes any member of the following kei: one-kei, mamba, gyaru, surf-kei, B-kei, lolita-kei, goth/loli-kei, celeb/B-kei, celeb/gyaru-kei, one-gyaru, amongst others. The following are often indicators of girls in the A-class: dyed hair, short skirts or shorts, white makeup around eyes, glitter, hair-extensions, fake eyelashes, suntans, sunglasses, cleavage, showing skin, color clothing, Stitch, Pooh, or Marie apparel, in her teens, dropped out of school, highly accessorized, piercings, amongst many more. The more of these a girl has, the more likely she is to closely relate to a decided kei, and is therefore more likely to be in the A-class.
The B-class includes everyone who is not in the A-class. This would include normal girls, OLs, or anyone fitting into "casual-kei." Here are some characteristics: black or dark brown hair, jeans, slacks, long shorts or long skirts, jobs, lighter skin, parasols, generally older than A-class, educated, and so on. (Note: A & B were chosen for simplicity, neither is being classified as more desirable than the other.)
A/B-class: this group includes girls who have too many of both class's characteristics to be in either class. They are in the gray (or in this case, purple) area.
Preferences: Some men might desire a girl from the A-class more often than girls from the B-class, and vice-versa. It's a personal preference. Even if someone is really into the A-class style girl, he will almost always be interested in a cute B-class girl, but not as much as her A-class twin sister. Or, someone might think a girl's beautiful, but be turned off by her outrageous A-class fashion sense. There will be different levels of discrepancy regarding a raw beauty vs. class (style): sometimes style will be important whereas sometimes raw beauty is important.
And the charts. Naturally there are many more members in the B-class, so its box is larger. If someone likes A-class girls, the girl he desires most, will usually be an A-class girl, and the same holds true for he who likes the more casual B-class, therefore, that particular class is higher. And, for he who cares nothing about fashion but sees only Raw Beauty, see the following chart:
Next is a chart for someone who is largely attracted to A-class girls. See how a girl has to be physically cuter to be "average."
So what do we learn? That we can hunt a girl from behind without seeing her face and 9/10 times be satisfied with our target. That I know what to expect when a girl brings a friend, because the friend is also likely A-class. He who thinks information like this can't help him has not reached his full potential with women
The A-class consists mainly of girls dressing similar to one conforming to a specific kei, or decided fashion style. This includes any member of the following kei: one-kei, mamba, gyaru, surf-kei, B-kei, lolita-kei, goth/loli-kei, celeb/B-kei, celeb/gyaru-kei, one-gyaru, amongst others. The following are often indicators of girls in the A-class: dyed hair, short skirts or shorts, white makeup around eyes, glitter, hair-extensions, fake eyelashes, suntans, sunglasses, cleavage, showing skin, color clothing, Stitch, Pooh, or Marie apparel, in her teens, dropped out of school, highly accessorized, piercings, amongst many more. The more of these a girl has, the more likely she is to closely relate to a decided kei, and is therefore more likely to be in the A-class.
The B-class includes everyone who is not in the A-class. This would include normal girls, OLs, or anyone fitting into "casual-kei." Here are some characteristics: black or dark brown hair, jeans, slacks, long shorts or long skirts, jobs, lighter skin, parasols, generally older than A-class, educated, and so on. (Note: A & B were chosen for simplicity, neither is being classified as more desirable than the other.)
A/B-class: this group includes girls who have too many of both class's characteristics to be in either class. They are in the gray (or in this case, purple) area.
Preferences: Some men might desire a girl from the A-class more often than girls from the B-class, and vice-versa. It's a personal preference. Even if someone is really into the A-class style girl, he will almost always be interested in a cute B-class girl, but not as much as her A-class twin sister. Or, someone might think a girl's beautiful, but be turned off by her outrageous A-class fashion sense. There will be different levels of discrepancy regarding a raw beauty vs. class (style): sometimes style will be important whereas sometimes raw beauty is important.
And the charts. Naturally there are many more members in the B-class, so its box is larger. If someone likes A-class girls, the girl he desires most, will usually be an A-class girl, and the same holds true for he who likes the more casual B-class, therefore, that particular class is higher. And, for he who cares nothing about fashion but sees only Raw Beauty, see the following chart:
Next is a chart for someone who is largely attracted to A-class girls. See how a girl has to be physically cuter to be "average."
So what do we learn? That we can hunt a girl from behind without seeing her face and 9/10 times be satisfied with our target. That I know what to expect when a girl brings a friend, because the friend is also likely A-class. He who thinks information like this can't help him has not reached his full potential with women
Is She "Desireable" or a WOT?
Have you ever been in one of those situations where you feel like you've wasted time sleeping with another 6? Have you ever wondered what NuBreed means when he uses the word "desirable" and says it doesn't relate to a girl's looks? Well, this entry will answer these questions.
Some of you reading this have never really felt like you've had too many women at a given time. Some however do have the problem. For me, it goes something like this: I have a few girlfriends who are 8s. One's even an 8.5; and young. And I've been with a few new, hot girls in the past few weeks. And then I go out and try a 6. How do I feel? Well, I'd usually take a girl out for a drink or at least have a drink with her in my house before sex, and that takes an hour or two, and then the sex itself and hanging out with her after takes time too. When I'm done, I've just spent 5 hours to sleep with a girl who left me feeling unsatisfied. Why?
Now there are some guys who are looking for help because they lack motivation. The above refers to me having too much motivation. Why do I sleep with girls and when I'm done, wish I wouldn't have? Her not being new anymore is part of it, but not the whole. Is it because I'm still unconsciously thinking that I have to get the most girls possible? Is it that I'm addicted? My friend Mild Seven had this comment: "Sometimes we go for girls below our standards because there's nobody else around, or because it requires less boldness to approach (or a warm-up) etc."
Many guys who have lived in Japan (or anywhere for that matter) who have been moderately successful with women often say, 'It's quality, not quantity.' Personally I've always gone for a large quantity of high quality girls, and still do. However, I feel the time is coming that I need to cut down a bit.
So, before I can make a list of what types of girls it's okay for me to have sex with without feeling I've wasted my time, a definition of desirability is in order. Desireability - a rating on a scale 0-10 which encompasses how badly you want sex with a girl. This is not to be confused with the Objective Looks Rating Scale. Example 1: "She's an average 5, but I like her because she has monster tits!!" Desirability: 8. Example 2: "She's a 5, but she's my old boss's daughter!" Desirability: 9! You get the picture.
And, the list of things that makes a girl desirable for me. If a girl has any of these things, although she may be a 3 in Looks, her Desirability might be an 8. Remember, a girl's rating on your Personal Looks Scale is usually the most important factor in Desirability, but as you can see from the examples above, not necessarily.
Factors that make a girl desirable for me:
*The definition of "gyaru" differs by speaker. See Glossary.
Some of you reading this have never really felt like you've had too many women at a given time. Some however do have the problem. For me, it goes something like this: I have a few girlfriends who are 8s. One's even an 8.5; and young. And I've been with a few new, hot girls in the past few weeks. And then I go out and try a 6. How do I feel? Well, I'd usually take a girl out for a drink or at least have a drink with her in my house before sex, and that takes an hour or two, and then the sex itself and hanging out with her after takes time too. When I'm done, I've just spent 5 hours to sleep with a girl who left me feeling unsatisfied. Why?
Now there are some guys who are looking for help because they lack motivation. The above refers to me having too much motivation. Why do I sleep with girls and when I'm done, wish I wouldn't have? Her not being new anymore is part of it, but not the whole. Is it because I'm still unconsciously thinking that I have to get the most girls possible? Is it that I'm addicted? My friend Mild Seven had this comment: "Sometimes we go for girls below our standards because there's nobody else around, or because it requires less boldness to approach (or a warm-up) etc."
Many guys who have lived in Japan (or anywhere for that matter) who have been moderately successful with women often say, 'It's quality, not quantity.' Personally I've always gone for a large quantity of high quality girls, and still do. However, I feel the time is coming that I need to cut down a bit.
So, before I can make a list of what types of girls it's okay for me to have sex with without feeling I've wasted my time, a definition of desirability is in order. Desireability - a rating on a scale 0-10 which encompasses how badly you want sex with a girl. This is not to be confused with the Objective Looks Rating Scale. Example 1: "She's an average 5, but I like her because she has monster tits!!" Desirability: 8. Example 2: "She's a 5, but she's my old boss's daughter!" Desirability: 9! You get the picture.
And, the list of things that makes a girl desirable for me. If a girl has any of these things, although she may be a 3 in Looks, her Desirability might be an 8. Remember, a girl's rating on your Personal Looks Scale is usually the most important factor in Desirability, but as you can see from the examples above, not necessarily.
Factors that make a girl desirable for me:
- Pregnant. Gross? I don't care what you say. I'd like to be with a woman who's 6-8 months pregnant because I've never tried it. I don't want a fat, old pregnant lady, and of course an 18 year old pregnant gyaru would be the ideal and ultimate 10 in Desirability, but even your normal, 25 year old B-class 5, pregnant, would be fine. She'd be an 8 in desirability, to me, just because she's pregnant
- Tan-blond gyaru. I've been with dozens and dozens of "gyaru,"* dozens of "blonds," and my share of tan girls. But the strict definition of tan-blond gyaru means that you don't even see too many of them. Therefore they're rare. Therefore I desire them.
- Skinny. I dated a girl 35.5 kilograms the other day! I wrapped my hands around her waist with a few centimeters to spare. Gross? Good. Pass the skinny ones my way!
- Short. My shortest to date is 143 cm. She was an average 5, but since I don't see 143 cm 8s walking around daily, I'll settle for this one. Bet you haven't got smaller? You don't like? Hey, this is my scale. 143 cm = a 3 to you? Great! Pass her to me and I'll buy you a beer! :)
- Big tits. I'm not as into this as most guys, but if a girl has enormous knockers, there's not a guy in the world who doesn't want to see them. I'll always make an exception for huge breasts, provided she isn't fat.
- Lolita. I've never had one of these. They are usually too young with strange personalities. Would be interesting.
- Twins. I slept with a girl who had an identical twin. When I picked her up she was with her sister too. Both virgins. I'd like to go back and get the sister, but that'd just be wrong!
- Hot Indian. I'm always interested in girls from other countries. I've been with girls of about 18 different countries, and the girls in India's music videos are hot! I want one!
- 7.5+. Duh. On the NuBreed Scale, 7.5s are hot, and gaijin don't regularly get them. In fact, it's so rare that I've only seen a little over 50 foreign guys with 7.5s since I started counting a few years ago.
*The definition of "gyaru" differs by speaker. See Glossary.
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
The PUA Quadrant
Have you ever met a guy who would be soooo good with women if he would just settle down and talk like a normal human being? Or what about good-looking, normal guys like yourself? Don't you sit home and tell yourself, 'if I would have hit on 10 girls this week instead of 1, I wouldn't be sitting home alone tonight'?
I think we've all had questions like this. I've met several guys of each type. Let's start from the bottom right quadrant and work our way up.
4. Fearful & Unpredictable. This the worst situation to be in. A computer nerd who turns out to be kind of a weird guy would fall into this category. Not only is he scared to approach women, when he talks to one, he says things to screw himself up. He will never be successful.
3. Fearless & Unpredictable. These guys can do relatively well for themselves. Often, they do much better than guys in Quadrant 2. They have no fear of approaching women, so they approach many. They may scare 90% away by touching them, lifting up their skirts, or asking to see their tits, but on the 10% who think they're funny, it's on! These are "playboys" who give foreigners in Japan a bad name. They are the type to embarrass you by talking about sex in a restaurant of people, or else the type who don't show up for arranged meetings.
2. Fearful & Predictable. A normal person. If you're the type of person to be reading this blog, then you are likely in Quadrant 2. Most of the time, I fit here. All of my friends fit here. Normal guys talk normally, and normal guys feel nervous, shy, or fearful when they talk to new women they want to have sex with
1. Fearless & Predictable. Doesn't exist! This is the guy we become when we follow the rules of Solohunt 2.0 (linked to Glossary). We can be this guy if a girl gives us eye contact first, or if we've had a few drinks. If a girl is an 8+ on the NuBreed Looks Scale ("Ratings"explained in Profile) and I attempt her unconsciously, then I will fit here. I can also become this guy when I'm warmed up after talking to several girls that day. However, I don't know anyone who wakes up in the morning as a number 1.
This kind of sums up the types of guys you see hunting. If you're a 2, as you likely are, then you'll understand why that crazy #3 guy is getting more girls than you - he talks to so many more. It may be some consolidation that his percentages suck. In short, what we need is confidence boosters, or things to help us overcome shyness to talk to more girls. It's a numbers game, and the more anyone talks to, the more he gets.
I think we've all had questions like this. I've met several guys of each type. Let's start from the bottom right quadrant and work our way up.
4. Fearful & Unpredictable. This the worst situation to be in. A computer nerd who turns out to be kind of a weird guy would fall into this category. Not only is he scared to approach women, when he talks to one, he says things to screw himself up. He will never be successful.
3. Fearless & Unpredictable. These guys can do relatively well for themselves. Often, they do much better than guys in Quadrant 2. They have no fear of approaching women, so they approach many. They may scare 90% away by touching them, lifting up their skirts, or asking to see their tits, but on the 10% who think they're funny, it's on! These are "playboys" who give foreigners in Japan a bad name. They are the type to embarrass you by talking about sex in a restaurant of people, or else the type who don't show up for arranged meetings.
2. Fearful & Predictable. A normal person. If you're the type of person to be reading this blog, then you are likely in Quadrant 2. Most of the time, I fit here. All of my friends fit here. Normal guys talk normally, and normal guys feel nervous, shy, or fearful when they talk to new women they want to have sex with
1. Fearless & Predictable. Doesn't exist! This is the guy we become when we follow the rules of Solohunt 2.0 (linked to Glossary). We can be this guy if a girl gives us eye contact first, or if we've had a few drinks. If a girl is an 8+ on the NuBreed Looks Scale ("Ratings"explained in Profile) and I attempt her unconsciously, then I will fit here. I can also become this guy when I'm warmed up after talking to several girls that day. However, I don't know anyone who wakes up in the morning as a number 1.
This kind of sums up the types of guys you see hunting. If you're a 2, as you likely are, then you'll understand why that crazy #3 guy is getting more girls than you - he talks to so many more. It may be some consolidation that his percentages suck. In short, what we need is confidence boosters, or things to help us overcome shyness to talk to more girls. It's a numbers game, and the more anyone talks to, the more he gets.Monday, May 19, 2008
NuBreed Nampa Glossary
This is a list of terms you may see used through the posts in the blog. If there's a term you don't understand please mail me (or post a comment) and I'll add it here:
AFC: Average frustrated chump. He who either has poor social skills with women, or, due to society's view of what a "nice guy" should be, fails to get sex due to arrogance, negativity, or ignorance about women
Attempt: Approaching a woman and attempting to get her contact info
Date types:
Gyaru: a useless term whose meaning has evolved and can mean anything from "tan, blond, and young with a lot of strange makeup," to "young," to "highly accessorized girl." NuBreed definition: see "Tan-blond gyaru"
Keyboard Jockey (KJ): He who gives advice that is actually theory that he has never tried for himself. Regurgitating information you read in a book without stating that you haven't actually tried it yourself means you're a KJ.
Lonewolf: A girl sitting/walking alone targeted for nampa. Related: 1-set, singular, loner
LMR: "Last-minute resistance" before sex
Milker: a girl seeking gaijin for sex or language exchange. Overall viewed as physically unattractive by Japanese society. Many foreigners find them attractive. Usually the easiest to have sex with, although known for more LMR than normal girls. Related terms: Eigo-bandit, English hunter, gaijin-hunter, language leech
Natural: he who was naturally alpha, never AFC or PUA, and has his own unique methods for successfully having sex with about one woman a month
PUA: he who has a constantly evolving method and is using it to successfully bed women at least once a month. NuBreed definition: he who studies pickup community knowledge and may be either successful or unsuccessful with women
Rating Scales:
Solohunt (1.0): Solohunt in its initial stages. Originally labeled "Constant Hunt." The concept of pickup on commutes to work, school, etc. If you're not following Solohunt 2.0 guidelines, the pickup falls into this category
Solohunt 2.0: A set of guidelines preparing one for pickup during commutes. Wearing clothing that makes you feel confident, leaving home early, the 10-second escape-clause, amongst others, are included here
Solohunt 3.0: The concept of going out alone specifically to streethunt. All Solohunt 2.0 rules apply. A safety clause and confidence booster says you can only talk to lonewolves; but also says you must attempt all lonewolves
Streethunting: The concept of walking around, usually with wing, with the intentions of picking up girls. Related: day game
Tan-blond gyaru: a girl, usually under 20, who has a suntan, blond or gray hair, is highly A-class, wears flashy colors, revealing clothing, and the makeup styles of the "gyaru" of the 90s. Exceptions: possible, but not for discussion here. If she lacks any of these features, she's probably not a tan-blond gyaru.
Toss-a-tent: To have sex soon upon meeting. This stems from the idea of pitching a tent for the purpose of sex. Related terms: insta-date, insta-sex, fool's mate
Warm-up: Talking to any girl (or possibly guy) to get yourself in a social state needed for streethunting or club game
WOT: Short for "waste of time"
AFC: Average frustrated chump. He who either has poor social skills with women, or, due to society's view of what a "nice guy" should be, fails to get sex due to arrogance, negativity, or ignorance about women
Attempt: Approaching a woman and attempting to get her contact info
Date types:
- Level 1: An arranged, traditional date between one guy and a girl
- A) Sex date: a date in which you intend to have sex
- B) Time-filler date: a typically unenjoyable date used to bridge the gap between sex dates or fun dates. Sometimes necessary to keep a girl's interest.
- C) Fun date: going somewhere you want to go, or else spending time with a nice girl, sex or no
- Level 2: An arranged meeting including 3 or more members. Related terms:
- Level 3: A semi-arranged, often hopeless meeting at a girl's work or a crowded party, club, or dance event
Gyaru: a useless term whose meaning has evolved and can mean anything from "tan, blond, and young with a lot of strange makeup," to "young," to "highly accessorized girl." NuBreed definition: see "Tan-blond gyaru"
Keyboard Jockey (KJ): He who gives advice that is actually theory that he has never tried for himself. Regurgitating information you read in a book without stating that you haven't actually tried it yourself means you're a KJ.
Lonewolf: A girl sitting/walking alone targeted for nampa. Related: 1-set, singular, loner
LMR: "Last-minute resistance" before sex
Milker: a girl seeking gaijin for sex or language exchange. Overall viewed as physically unattractive by Japanese society. Many foreigners find them attractive. Usually the easiest to have sex with, although known for more LMR than normal girls. Related terms: Eigo-bandit, English hunter, gaijin-hunter, language leech
Natural: he who was naturally alpha, never AFC or PUA, and has his own unique methods for successfully having sex with about one woman a month
PUA: he who has a constantly evolving method and is using it to successfully bed women at least once a month. NuBreed definition: he who studies pickup community knowledge and may be either successful or unsuccessful with women
Rating Scales:
- A) A-Class Scale: the number of A-class characteristics a girl has, and the degree of those characteristics
- B) Desirability Scale: how much you want to have sex with a girl. This can be influenced by any factors, including looks, A-class rating, bust size, voice, height, and basically any type of fetish.
- C) Personal Looks Scale: how you personally think a girl looks (varies widely)
- D) Objective Looks Scale: the main scale encompassing how a girl looks if rated by society as a whole
- E) Raw Beauty Scale: a girl's natural beauty, NOT relative to her makeup or fashion
- F) Personal Overall Scale: looks plus personality, fetishes, and all factors combined (varies widely)
Solohunt (1.0): Solohunt in its initial stages. Originally labeled "Constant Hunt." The concept of pickup on commutes to work, school, etc. If you're not following Solohunt 2.0 guidelines, the pickup falls into this category
Solohunt 2.0: A set of guidelines preparing one for pickup during commutes. Wearing clothing that makes you feel confident, leaving home early, the 10-second escape-clause, amongst others, are included here
Solohunt 3.0: The concept of going out alone specifically to streethunt. All Solohunt 2.0 rules apply. A safety clause and confidence booster says you can only talk to lonewolves; but also says you must attempt all lonewolves
Streethunting: The concept of walking around, usually with wing, with the intentions of picking up girls. Related: day game
Tan-blond gyaru: a girl, usually under 20, who has a suntan, blond or gray hair, is highly A-class, wears flashy colors, revealing clothing, and the makeup styles of the "gyaru" of the 90s. Exceptions: possible, but not for discussion here. If she lacks any of these features, she's probably not a tan-blond gyaru.
Toss-a-tent: To have sex soon upon meeting. This stems from the idea of pitching a tent for the purpose of sex. Related terms: insta-date, insta-sex, fool's mate
Warm-up: Talking to any girl (or possibly guy) to get yourself in a social state needed for streethunting or club game
WOT: Short for "waste of time"
Series on Efficiency: No Level 3 Dates!
Letter from the Editor
Welcome to the Series on Efficiency, for May, 2008. The June newsletter is in the works. We are starting the series because we hate to see girls wasting guys' time. We don't participate in things that are a WOT (waste of time), whether it's girls or not. We want sex, and then we want to hang out or wine and dine the girls after. Why? Because we don't trust them. So we want it in that order. You may be thinking that girls want it the opposite way, and in many situations that's correct, but many other situations the girls try to get the wine and dine, the free English milkage, the experience of foreign dating, or the pride of showing you off to their friends without ever giving it up. Don't become a victim! Don't be Japanese and be used by girls who you aren't sleeping with! Sign up to our free newsletter today!Date Types
There are three main types of dates:*A) Sex date. Izakaya, karaoke, park, whatever it may be you take a girl on the same day you attempt to have sex with her.
*B) Time-wasting date. A time-filler date. You won't get sex this day, but this is used to bridge the gap between sex dates. Series on Efficiency sees these as a gamble, but sometimes necessary to keep a girl's interest--especially a girlfriend.
*C) Fun date. When you take a girl some where you actually want to go, or else spend time with a girl you enjoy being with, sex or no.
In No Level 3s, we're focusing on 1) sex dates or 2) time wasting dates with girls you haven't yet had sex with. First, let's look at the types as defined in the Japan Lair Wiki:
* Level 1. An arranged, traditional date between one guy and a girl
* Level 2. An arranged meeting including 3 or more members. Related terms: 合コン、コンパ
* Level 3. A semi-arranged, often hopeless meeting at a girl's work or a crowded party, club, or dance event
My job is now to convince you to not participate one very simple, very limited behavior. And this behavior is so narrow in scope, that my job might be easy. And my goal of this is not to get you girls or to increase your chances, but you save you time, and increase your efficiency. I'll rest easy knowing I've saved you time. How you spend it is up to you. This will also, guaranteed, increase your success on second time meetings (Day2s).
Case study
True story. Todd hunts Miki in Ame-mura, Osaka and they exchange emails (1). After a couple weeks, Miki invites Todd to her hostess bar (2). Todd is skeptical, and mails for more information (3). Miki tells Todd that she will pay for his drinks because if she gets a customer to visit her tonight she will get a pay raise (4). Todd is still unsure, but he goes (5). Todd has a good time, but he would have rather been home doing other things (6). When he's ready to go when one three things happens (choose your own adventure here): Todd has Miki pay for him and he leaves, gaining nothing (7a); she makes him feel bad for not paying and he leaves 10,000 poorer (7b); Miki tells him she'll pay him next time they meet (7b).The story is over. Look at the results. If 7a, Todd participated in a 3-hour WOT. If 7b it was the same WOT, plus a waste of money. 7c might be the worst, because Todd not only had an unsuccessful Day2, he will have to have a Day3 just to get his money back. So, he will either not see her again to keep from wasting his time even more, or else he'll chalk it up and realize his $100 mistake. Does Todd want to be in the situation hoping a girl--from a country of girls who often flake on gaijin--will meet him again to cough up the dough? If he does get it, how bad and broke would that make him look? Either way, Todd is doomed.
Luckily, Todd is sensible and quit after sentence 2. After the last trains had passed (a seed for a future excuse), Todd mailed her for more info (sentence 3), and got it (sentence 4). Todd's reply to her: "I'm with three friends now, all gaijin. Two girls. You want to meet up after you finish work?" Todd wasted no time, didn't get the girl mad at him, and as a bonus, gave Miki an option to meet up with him. No WOT for Todd! In fact, he might have even improved his situation with Miki (because she pictures two sexy white girls).
No Level 3s!
And this story of Todd is no different from hundreds of other examples: "I'll be at this club next week, you want to meet here?", "I work at Starbucks, you should stop by!", or "Let's have lunch together in the cafeteria at school with you and my 12 friends." These are all Level 3 situations, and they are all dead ends. Of course, there is only one reason to go to these Level 3 Day2s: you hope that seeing her in a place which is comfortable for her will increase your chances of getting a Level 1 (Day3) with her.You're in Japan. Girls are a dime a dozen. Girls who try to sucker you into a Level 3 (whether they have some exterior motive or else it's their option out of saying the dreaded word "no") are a nickel a dozen. And for some good news, 8s and up will suggest a Level 3 meeting at a much lower frequency than 5s and 6s who are on average less experienced with men (provided they aren't really young). They might have some use for you such as you being a customer, however, but they don't want English or pride from being with you.
Conclusion
So this is the end of our Series on Efficiency: No Level 3s. As a final tip, remember that some girls will invite you for a Level 3 meet up even if they're willing to get a Level 1. You're going to push for that Level 1 until she flakes, because you're not going on the Level 3 anyway, right? If you agree from this point on to not go on Level 3s, compare your successful date percentage to a time when you were being suckered into going on Level 3s. It's guaranteed to rise, because simply, "Let's do a Level 3!" is often a substitute for, "I'm not comfortable enough to see you alone (and I never will be)."And as always, happy hunting!
Can We Get 20 yo Girls at Age 35-40?
Recently I've been involved in the personal dilemma about whether I should pursue my career in the US or stay in Japan and meet more new girls. I'd come back to Japan, but I'd be older than I am now. I've been thinking a lot about how age will effect girls' perception of me. Will I be able to get as many and as hot of girls when I'm 35 or 40? When I was early/mid-20s I figured I needed to be in Japan before I was too old to get young girls. Five years later I'm not only able to get younger, hotter girls, but they are easier to get! I don't work as hard, either. I just got used to talking to them, I guess. But there has to be a limit to where experience can overcome the negative effects of aging.
The chart is by no means perfect and will be different for every guy, but you can see where there will/might be a peak. That peak, for me anyway, is going to be somewhere after 30 because I'm still improving and gaining experience. However, let's say my experience has and always been where it is now, then would I be better at 25, 35, or even 45? I may never know.
Here's something we can all do: ask girls we know about what age guys they would go for and post your comments below. I asked a girl the other day if, in the right situation, she would just go to dinner alone with (a picture of a 60 year old golf-clothes model on the sign). She said yes if she didn't have a BF. He was good-looking for 60. She's 19. In my experience if you can get them to go with you on a Level 1, one on one date, then you can usually get them in the sack. Could the 60 year old guy nail her? She's pretty cute. I don't know. Maybe when I'm that age I won't be interested in 20 year old Japanese girls, but it's kind of fun to think about! When I'm 40 I think I can get 20s, even the hottest ones that I like now. I don't think it will be as regularly or easily as now, though, but I'll take em!
I'll get back to you in 10 years on this one :)
UPDATE: I found this online. A friend showed it to me after reading this article. If you're 35-40 and are worried about get 20 year old's, he suggested that you study this article and recite it to yourself when you're picking up a 20 year old Hott. Older men, enjoy!:
Younger women often enjoy the company of older man for a variety of reasons. A very common reason that many women turn to older men is that these men are more mature than the men their own age. Women mature faster than men and therefore want to be with a man who is closer to them in maturity level. Women do not want to date a man who would rather play computer games then spend time with her. This is not a problem with an older man.
Some women, and in particular those who have an absent father, look to an older man as a type of father figure or mentor. This is often a mutually beneficial arrangement for both parties involved. A woman will receive guidance and gain more life experience from being with an older man while the older man gets to feel that he is powerful and is looked up to by the woman.
Men who are mature also tend to be worldlier and more self-confident as they know themselves better, which is something that attracts younger women. Older men are more experienced sexually but tend to have less of a sex drive but many women find that the lovemaking with an older man is completely fulfilling to them, as older men are better at listening to the needs of a younger woman than a man their own age tends to be. Not being as drive by testosterone often makes older men better in bed than younger men, according to some women. Older men often view pleasure in a different light than younger men and are more concerned with the woman’s pleasure as opposed to their own. This makes them very appealing to younger women.
Older men tend to be more steadfast and stable and are generally more established and settled in their chosen careers than are younger men. The security that comes from being financially viable and well established is traits that tend to draw younger women to older men in droves. An older man is no longer in college or struggling away at a low paying job but is secure and generally doing well at his profession.
Women like the chivalry that older men often show and they like the fact that older men tend to have more respect for them and they are polite and have manners. Women like men who know how to be men. In today’s society many young people are delaying growing. Most women want to be with men who are responsible and can stand on their own two feet and are able to support themselves and take care of themselves without their mother’s help. Most women do not want a man who is supported his parents. That is why many younger women seek out the company of an older man.
(http://www.mamashealth.com/dating/olderman/default.asp)
The chart is by no means perfect and will be different for every guy, but you can see where there will/might be a peak. That peak, for me anyway, is going to be somewhere after 30 because I'm still improving and gaining experience. However, let's say my experience has and always been where it is now, then would I be better at 25, 35, or even 45? I may never know.
Here's something we can all do: ask girls we know about what age guys they would go for and post your comments below. I asked a girl the other day if, in the right situation, she would just go to dinner alone with (a picture of a 60 year old golf-clothes model on the sign). She said yes if she didn't have a BF. He was good-looking for 60. She's 19. In my experience if you can get them to go with you on a Level 1, one on one date, then you can usually get them in the sack. Could the 60 year old guy nail her? She's pretty cute. I don't know. Maybe when I'm that age I won't be interested in 20 year old Japanese girls, but it's kind of fun to think about! When I'm 40 I think I can get 20s, even the hottest ones that I like now. I don't think it will be as regularly or easily as now, though, but I'll take em!
I'll get back to you in 10 years on this one :)
UPDATE: I found this online. A friend showed it to me after reading this article. If you're 35-40 and are worried about get 20 year old's, he suggested that you study this article and recite it to yourself when you're picking up a 20 year old Hott. Older men, enjoy!:
Younger women often enjoy the company of older man for a variety of reasons. A very common reason that many women turn to older men is that these men are more mature than the men their own age. Women mature faster than men and therefore want to be with a man who is closer to them in maturity level. Women do not want to date a man who would rather play computer games then spend time with her. This is not a problem with an older man.
Some women, and in particular those who have an absent father, look to an older man as a type of father figure or mentor. This is often a mutually beneficial arrangement for both parties involved. A woman will receive guidance and gain more life experience from being with an older man while the older man gets to feel that he is powerful and is looked up to by the woman.
Men who are mature also tend to be worldlier and more self-confident as they know themselves better, which is something that attracts younger women. Older men are more experienced sexually but tend to have less of a sex drive but many women find that the lovemaking with an older man is completely fulfilling to them, as older men are better at listening to the needs of a younger woman than a man their own age tends to be. Not being as drive by testosterone often makes older men better in bed than younger men, according to some women. Older men often view pleasure in a different light than younger men and are more concerned with the woman’s pleasure as opposed to their own. This makes them very appealing to younger women.
Older men tend to be more steadfast and stable and are generally more established and settled in their chosen careers than are younger men. The security that comes from being financially viable and well established is traits that tend to draw younger women to older men in droves. An older man is no longer in college or struggling away at a low paying job but is secure and generally doing well at his profession.
Women like the chivalry that older men often show and they like the fact that older men tend to have more respect for them and they are polite and have manners. Women like men who know how to be men. In today’s society many young people are delaying growing. Most women want to be with men who are responsible and can stand on their own two feet and are able to support themselves and take care of themselves without their mother’s help. Most women do not want a man who is supported his parents. That is why many younger women seek out the company of an older man.
(http://www.mamashealth.com/dating/olderman/default.asp)
My Profile and Introduction
This was originally written in June 2007 (updated May 08). It's kind of random, and a lot of the topic header content (and a lot more) will be expanded in other posts. Of course I'd been picking up Japanese girls for several years when I first wrote the profile. However, it was kind of self-introduction to the members of the Japan PU community, a certain group of foreigners living in Japan who apply the mass of (mostly American) PU community knowledge to picking up girls in Japan.
I've been in Japan a couple different times. This time it's been nearly six years. Each time I came it was mainly for girls. I like several different aspects of the country, but if I had no opportunities to meet hot chicks, I'd be gone next week. For years I felt alone, being the only one this interested in getting girls. I have them systematically categorized in my phone and computer. I'm a nut to anyone else, so I was very happy to meet other guys online, in Japan at that, who liked Japanese girls as much as I did.
PUA
I’ve always picked up girls, but until 5 months ago I hadn't heard anything Mystery and other PUAs. I'd never heard any terms in Mystery's glossary and hadn't even heard "PUA." Since then I've read "Game" and "MM." Reading the books made me feel like less of an outcast that there are actually more freaks out there like me. I’m glad!
I’d say that about half of the material in MM is stuff I’ve learned from my own experiences. Some of it was actually surprising. I was like Hey! He stole my tricks! I think another 25% is stuff that you learn through common sense, such as not asking a girl if you can sit down as that gives her a reason to say no. Some guys who don’t necessarily lack common sense, but are so nervous around girls that they lack ANY sense. These guys are not losers, just shy. I think Mystery has done a great thing with many guys’ lives.
About 25% of MMs material I found to be potentially good in a club or social situation in the US, but not for white guys hunting girls on the streets of Japan. Therefore, it doesn’t apply to that aspect, which consequently is my specialty. Some of the stuff in the book was really good that I hadn’t thought about before and was able to put to good use in my pickups. Thanks, Mystery! And finally, I found some of the content basically useless and/or impossible. Then again, some of that stuff includes Mystery’s personal routines which aren’t part of the regular text but are mentioned in the margins of the book or given as examples. These are fine for him. Heck, whatever works. A lot of what he says would never work for me, so I stick what I know.
My Type of Girl
I like several types, but I'm pretty picky, and it might be hard to pick out what kind of girl I'd like. I like the dark skinned blond gyarus. I like any girl with a cute face. I like B-kei girls. I like any girl with a sexy body who's showing skin. I like them around 20 years old. I have pictures of most girls I’ve been with. Some have been really nice. I won’t lie and say I haven’t had my share of 5s, though. Hell, I’ve even had a 3 or two.
Ratings
I rate girls 0-10. I have never given a 0 because that would mean a girl would like a she-wolf...AND be fat! I have never rated 10, either, but I'm not saying I never will. When they make a computer program so I can take the face and body of my favorite two 9s and mix them together, and when I can add the perfect tits, and makeup, and hair, and everything else I want, only then will I have a 10. Until then, 9.5 is the highest, and I make that rating about once a year (and I live in a busy area). I will rate a 9 about once every month or two. 8s are visible daily in the busy areas. But if I happen to see an 8 alone I will probably jump on no matter what I'm doing, maybe even if I'm dressed bummy and sitting on the train. To me a 7 is a very cute girl and I'd be happy to date a 7. Fives are average no matter how you look at it. And what I rate 6s are what most foreigners in Japan rate HB8s. I'd date a 6, but probably wouldn't be her BF unless if she were really, really nice...and 18! ;)
Rating a girl is very easy. It takes me one second. However, describing it would take a ten-page essay. Above I tried to give a "how often you see..." example to show how I rate girls. But, I don't rate by the mean, average or frequency, I rate by the envisionable beauty content, meaning girl A's face with girl B's teeth and girl C's ass, etc, would be the ultimate envisionable girl, and she'd be the top. If you make one better, or if your tastes change, your 10 drops down to a fraction below 10. This will never happen though.
If I see a girl with an 8 face and an average body, I still give her a 7 or so. If she's dressed sexily and tanned with good makeup, I give her an 8 for sure. If she's dressed like an old lady, I give her a 7, or maybe even lower. It's not a fair rating, but it's not like I can guess what she'll look like with make up or anything. Now, if I see a girl with a 3 face, but an 8 body, I won't give her an 8, or even a 7, because the face sometimes counts as more. But, if she's showing her bright green g-string and stomach and has a dark tan and great makeup, her 3 face and 8 body would probably put her up at a 6 or so. If she's a bum and leaving me to guess what her body looks like, she remains a 3. We met a 3 with a great body like this and I gave her a 6 overall. Damn was she ugly though.
Here's a simplified scale:
10 - Goddess - only in fantasies
9 - Seen once a month in busy areas, if that. Worth being late for work to get her
8 - Girls I see foreigners with only a few times a year
7 - A very cute girl. Great catch for a GF
6 - Not GF-able unless if really, really cool, but decent and worth dating for sex
5 - Average
4 - Below average. Would say yes if she comes over on a Wed night and brings food
3 - Would say yes if drunk and haven't had sex for weeks
2 - Hideous. Must pay me for sex
1 - 400 lbs and hideous
0 - Werewolf -only in fantasies
Desirability
So, sometimes I ignore ratings and give a "Desirability Rating." This is a how-much-I-want-to-nail-her scale. If she's a 5 or 6 and has something I desire, but if that something doesn't really make her more beautiful, then I still rate her a 5 or 6, but give her a higher Desirability Rating. Some factors that might count towards a high desirability rating are (these are not necessarily my personal fetishes): cute feet, pierced tongue, big tits, thin waist, tan-lines, extra tall, short skirt daily with hot pink G-string exposed, etc. Example: "That girl's a 5, but she's 185 cm, so I want to nail her as much as I would a regular 7." Anyway...
”Machine Gun Nampa”
Think of Mike Tyson interrogating you in Japanese with lefts and rights of personal questions. Envision that, and you have Machine Gun Nampa. I surprise girls sometimes because I forget I'm a foreigner and just talk to the girls exactly as I see the Japanese hostboys do. Hostboys really bring it, baby. Four guys, 60 seconds, 100 questions. I know now that personal questions can creep a girl out sometimes, but I still attempt to replicate their confidence and cocky attitude. They were my only teachers for years. I have picked up and fucked girls who didn't even ask where I was from or discuss anything foreign because I keep the conversation topics and style 'in their world,' I guess you could say.
Speaking Japanese
My strength would be speaking Japanese. I speak Jap well and know all the slang used by the girls I pick up. I think strictly doing this works against me, though. Maybe even the girls being able to speak to me just like they can speak to Kenta-kun makes me more normal, and therefore less interesting to them. So, I purposely slow down and say some things in English occasionally just to keep my gaijin-ness and be more of what they think I'm supposed to be: a dumb, but exotic and entertaining foreigner - who they can respect because he knows two languages. All in all, the comfort a girl feels by speaking to a foriegner in her own language outranks any other technique you could learn
Streethunting
In the past 2 years, nearly half of the girls I’ve slept with have been picked up on the street or in the train or train station. However, this is the hardest way as most won't even look up to tell you to go away. My goal: "I just came up to make you smile. If you smile, I'll leave" or "I know you don't want to talk, just say 'goodbye,' and I'm gone." They jump through my hoop, I win. Up me one point on the confidence scale and on to the next girl! However, I don't talk to just any girl. If no one is biting, maybe 5 per hour, or so. You can't be an animal or it'll come through in your personality, I think. Also, you’ll give gaijin a bad reputation. If you really care that little about what kind of girl you hit on, and if you go for 60 per hour, please go to a gaijin bar or something and save other foreigners some face. Oh, and NEVER insult any girl who doesn’t talk to you. Just think that she’ll be more willing to talk to you next time… when she’s not on the rag!
"Solohunt 2.0" (rules governing "Constant Hunt")
This is kind of stupid, but it works for me. It’s something I've made up because all but like 1 or 2 of my wings have left me here to fend for myself. It's basically a set of rules I have to follow everyday to ensure I'm not shy when I see a cute girl. Examples:
*I will not be a pussy when I see a target standing solo.
*I will leave home 10 minutes early everyday, just to make sure I have time to talk if I see that 9 (well, I'd be late for work if she were really a 9, but anyway...).
*I will talk within 10 seconds, or I will leave, and be forced to go home and write down WHY I didn't talk to her, and what I should have done.
*If I'm on my bike, in my pajamas, forgot to comb my hair, etc, I will show her how cool I am by being able to sit on a piece of crap bike in flip-flops and jogging shorts and still have the balls to talk to a NB7.
Other Sarging Locations
Appx 15-20% of the girls I've gotten have been when I'm alone, hence the Solohunt 2.0 guidelines. It's soooo hard to get the courage to talk to someone, but when you do, it's usually after you get a smile or something, so chances are higher she's interested. And, I'd have to say 30% are from clubs. However, I went to the club ZERO TIMES in 2006. So what's that say?: that clubs are a copout and the easiest place to pickup. Even though I don't go so much, they still make up a large portion of the girls I get
Tan Blond Gyaru
To be able to have sex with 1-2 tan, blonde, sexy gyarus per month is my goal. I would move to another city to be able to do this. Now, I can only get a couple a year. I talk to a lot, but many ignore me. If I squeeze the email address out of them, they will change it within a week and never see me again. That said, I have been more successful in this category than any other foreigner I’ve met in my life. These girls just don’t want foreigners. I’ll take the few who do!
Future Goals
My goals have changed. From a PU standpoint, I’ve always wanted to to improve in the tanned, blond, gyaru category, the hardest, most beautiful girls in the world. But now, my goal is to at least semi-cure my addition. I actually have a great GF who I’ve been with over a year. She’s better than all of the girls I pickup, but still, I’m addicted. I think the only cure for me would be to leave Japan. So, for the past year I’ve been studying to leave Japan and go back and start a career in the US. I won’t be tied to the US totally, though. I love Japan, and the girls, and I want to be in this country. But I want to be in the US to make money. So I’m working on a plan to live a month here, a month there, or something similar. Think about it: most of us work 5 days a week leaving 8 days off per month. If I visted Japan for two weeks, that would give me 14 days off. I’d actually have time to meet new girls just visiting Japan as compared to living and working here. I’d also have time to travel and meet guys with similar insterests across the country.
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Sex on the beach and we're not talking cocktails! I really liked this girl. Hope to see her again!
