Skills to be a Top Japan PUA: Top-Ten Countdown

There are a lot of guys living in Japan who need help meeting women, so they consult the mainly online PUA community to get advice from the PU gurus in the US. These gurus have not been to Japan, therefore, when they say, "this works on all girls everywhere," they're not being entirely truthful. If you're reading this it's obvious that you're interested in Japanese women. So, when you search for advice about how to get these women, wouldn't it make sense to place more value on advice from someone who's been successful with Japanese women over several years and place a lesser value on what American PUA instructors advise? Judging by the low success rates of guys in Japan practicing this material, I think it's time to try some new things!

In short, very little of the advice given by these gurus matters one bit. You could do it, or you could not do it, either way, there are completely different factors which make all the difference. I'll go over a few main traits that someone would need to have to get the hottest girls in Japan. I'm not talking about the girls your foreign friends fool themselves into thinking are the hottest girls, I'm talking about the girls the coolest Japanese guys have trouble getting. I call them 8s and above. These traits will also help keep a high success rate when dating 6s and 7s. Most foreign guys dates 4s, 5s, and 6s. Granted, the below the traits work for these girls too, however, you don't have to meet all criteria to be successful! Even with all these traits, the hotter the girl the harder she'll be. That's always a given.

The Traits

1. Japanese. If you don't speak any Japanese you're limited to under 5% of the population. The cutest girls don't speak English (see why here) so that 5% is limited to the more average girls. So, if you want to be a PUA, sarging the hottest Japanese girls, Japanese is the most important factor. It heads our list. Learn it!

2. Common Sense. I'm sticking this in the number 2 slot because it includes so much. When you're picking up a girl can you sense if she's uncomfortable? Are you leaning too close or touching her too much? Are you being pushy about trying to date her now instead of just getting her address and texting her later? Is her friend coming and you have to hurry up and get her number before then so she's not embarrassed giving her number to a gaijin? Did you put two and two together that she has to be somewhere at a certain time so you won't have time to get her home on the date? This deserves a book of its own, but we don't have time for that. For now, you either have common sense or you don't. If you don't, the next trait can actually nearly overcome it.

3. Experience. This is a biggy so it's up at number 3. While someone who has a lot of common sense can come to Japan and pick up right away, someone with experience will learn to pickup through trial and error and from that point on be able to pickup for life. I've always had common sense and did fine when I first got to Japan, but, now, I'd say experience is more important and gets me laid more often than common sense. Why? I've been doing this for years, so I've pretty much seen everything and know what works and when.

4. Quick-thinking. This is kind of hard to explain, but I'm including non-KY here, so it's at number 4 on our countdown. KY, in Japanese, means someone who can't understand the situation at hand and behaves inconsistently with that situation. A quick-thinker rarely does something KY. Also, here we need to include how fast your brain recalls memories or draws conclusions and makes connections to something a girl mentions. If you can make a connection quickly you can converse better. Also, if you're a quick thinker, even if your Japanese isn't great, you might be able to dig through the data base which is your head and find the possible meaning of a word.

5. Non-Clueless. Some guys have no clue how to treat women. Some guys talk about what they did in college or high school. Does anyone really care, especially a hot girl? No. Some guys take girls on dates to clubs and get them taken by other guys. Some guys waste time going out with a girl and all her friends and wonder why she'll never meet him for a Level 1 and have sex with him. This is simple to overcome: think!

6. Plan ahead. What are you going to do with that girl who you're meeting tonight at 7 pm? You know she'll be 30 minutes late, right? Then you go to dinner at 7:45 and you're finally done after nine. You didn't have her drink a beer on the street before going in the restaurant, so she's hasn't even had enough to lie to herself that she's drunk and let herself have sex with you. Plus your house is like 30 minutes away, so you won't be there until 9:45, and her last train is 11. Do you really think you'll succeed? Plan ahead, or don't meet her! Scenario two: meeting a girl at a random station. How are you going to bang her if you haven't even researched where the hotels are?

7. Shy or out-going? You definitely can't be shy. You have to talk to girls. If I didn't talk to girls I'd get about 2 a year. If you're really good-looking maybe a few more, but still. An extreme form of shyness could actually be number one on our list. If you're shy, I've got some material to help to overcome that. Contact me!

8. Settling. I see guys settle for girls because they are easier to get. They tell themselves that they like these girls because they are just as good as the hot ones if the hot one didn't have all the makeup on. Uhh, yeah, but if you're reading this you should know that that's the point. We want the hottest girls! You may have all of these traits and more, but if you settle for your 6-rated GF then you're not going to be picking up that 8 are you?

9. Arrogance. If you're too arrogant, espeically to the girl, she's gone. I see this problem sometimes.

10. Desire. Rounding out our countdown would be actually caring. This can be similar to 8, whereas you can get a hotter girl, but you settle for another one just because she's there. But this is a bit different in that you think a girl is a girl, so you just go for whatever, or, you have that sex friend you're banging so you don't desire a newer, hotter girl, and therefore you don't get one.

Well, that rounds out my little top 10 list. I know it's not a good top 10 list but it sounds cooler that way, huh? I think we need a new category on the very top: 0. Going out and trying! But, that's a given. Here are a few more. They're physical, so the degree plays a part in importance. Obviously if you're 80, 300 pounds, or look like Billy Jim-Bob with three teeth and cow sh*t on your shoes you're not getting anything!

Appearance. You're born with your raw looks, but you can do a lot to change your appearance. For one, dress nicely. I didn't say you have to dress expensively, I said nicely. You can sport a T-shirt and jeans and still be dressed nicely. But no holey jeans, dirty shoes, etc. How's your hair? Is it plain or styled? Styled is best, but don't overdo it or you're looking like a playboy. Do you smell nice? Do you reek of cologne? No one likes that either!

Weight. Foriegners are on average about four inches taller than Japanese, and we know there are a lot of true stereotypes about foreigners being fat. Are you overweight? It for sure isn't going to help you. The portions are smaller in Japan and while it's hard to eat perfectly healthy, everything is pretty much on the healthy side, whereas in the US you can have either very healthy or very unhealthy. Keep the calories down. No extra helpings of rice! And exercise. Sex is good exercise, so you get double the benefits with this one!

Age. What's the ideal age to get the hottest girls? Well, first of all the hottest girls are 18-22, and they usually like guys 5-10 years older. So, since this post...this blog is about the hottest, I'm going to say the ideal age is 25-30, give or take. 40 year old going for an 18 year old? It's not that it can't be done, but it's harder. A 22 year old going for a 22 year old? Can be done, but harder. I think you get the point here. Personally, I can't really say at what age I was in my prime (related post) because experience has overtaken all and to this day I continue improving!