We like tan-blond gyaru because they are the most aesthetically pleasing and sexually inviting to some of us. A lot of guys want to try these tan-blond gyaru, but since there are so few of them they are in high demand and their value increases due to rarity. Therefore they're hard to get. If they were prevalant and easy I just might have had my fill after sex with a few. In fact, I wish I didn't like them. But I do.
Of course without the makeup and flamboyancy they wouldn't be as interesting. In fact, the tan-blond gyaru group as a whole maintains only a slight advantage in Raw Beauty over many other groups of Japanese girls. The o-ne-kei and hostess groups would also fit this description because, in their teens, the way cute or sexy girls are treated by men seems to push them dress in a way that is more popular with guys. If this is hard to understand, why not look at it like a fetish for pregnant girls? Some guys like them. They are very hard to get too, mainly because they're only visibly pregnant for 6 months, but also because they've very likely to have a man they love. An infatuation with any group is no different that infatuation of that with another.
For me I'm trying to switch the infatuation over to incredibly hot European chicks because that makes the most sense; plus I like them nearly as much. Not to take anything away from Japanese, preggos, or tan-blond gyaru, but I don't want to regret not sleeping with a lot of these girls while I have the chance. I feel that to continue to strive toward the two tan-blond gyaru per month goal would be waste of time which could be spent on pursuits with greater personal benefits.
However, no one on earth can say I didn't "do" Japan to the fullest extent to which it is capable of being done. To do it deeper would bring the satisfaction of more sex with tan-blond gyarus; a satisfaction with shorter lasting benefits than those of other pursuits. For example, although getting naked with a tan-blond gyaru is still more intriguing to me than the same with a girl of any other group, I've been with a lot more of them than I have with hot white girls, so the benefit of the latter is higher. Plus this pursuit will take me to interesting lands to which I haven't traveled. As far as long-term relationships go, remaining in Japan I could pick any girl on the street and predict her personality. She'd take years to be able to fully enter English conversations. Alternatively, traveling to new places I may be wowed by personalities and find someone who fits with me better than any Japanese ever could.
In summary, I think I've explained both sides of the tan-blond gyaru vs regular J-girl argument. 1) My explanation of white girls shows that while there can be more beneficial pursuits, tan-blond gyaru are rare, hard-to-get, and are in high demand by many guys. Therefore, if you want to complete the challenge you have to make that stop, put in the effort, and sleep with a few before moving on. 2) On the other hand, it's also true that the personalities and Raw Beauty of this sub-group of girls isn't much higher than that of other girls--there are both fat as well as incredibly sexy gyarus. And besides the sex benefits, although some might have great personalities, the way they dress themselves has little effect on us other than sexually.
To conclude, to say these girls are ugly and undesirable is blinding yourself to a lot of truths. To degrade guys going for these girls says more about yourself than the guys taking action. Likewise, since pretty much any thin 18 year old can be a tan-blond gyaru if she so desires, to spend more than a few years chasing a style is wasting part of a precious life and effort that could be better spent on other pursuits.
Thursday, January 14, 2010
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It's a shame to see you not striving for gyaru anymore but I know people's interest change from time to time and respect your decision. I will still probably take a bit of time trying to get them just to prove i can.
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