I'm referring to the time period after you have sex with a girl, whether that's the first day you met her, date 1, date 3, or date 6. Or, if you're too cool to go on dates--like this 18 yo douchebag Dave who enlightened me about women and said "I don't go on dates"--"meeting 1," "meeting 3," etc. This awkward period will end after you've dated (or "hung out with") her 3 or 4 more times. By this time you two are either a) BF and GF, b) sex friends, c) back to being regular acquaintances, or d) (and I'm positive this one occurs most often) haven't had 3-4 more dates and are no longer speaking to each other.
What Happens in the Time of Unease?
- First off all, for me, getting that girl to see me again has always been virtually as hard as getting a new girl to date me in the first place. I'm not going to let this post wander down this path though because although refusing to see me again is definitely a sign of unease, we've already posted and theorized a lot about this.
- Second, when I do get that next date after the first time we've had sex, I realized that the girl is actually LESS likely to come to my house than a new girl. Wow!! I feel they're thinking that I'm trying to use them only for sex (which usually isn't the case) and not going to my house would almost definitely prevent that.
- Third, when they do come to my house again and get into the same bed in which we've already had sex, they're LESS likely to put out than if they were a brand-new girl! Is this not an amazingly surprising statistic?!!
(Note, during this time of unease, I usually act normally and proceed as if she and I are going be seeing each other well into the future. I don't rush to bang her, but I do hope she stays over so I can bang her again after we're done hanging out.)
Why?
One thing I'm thinking is that the girls who DON'T see me again after sex are the ones who only wanted sex once (I used add "because I'm a gaijin" here but white girls are exactly the same!), thus they put out and never saw me again whereas the ones who do see me again are those looking for a relationship that includes more than sex.
Now, this is pretty technical and would take a lot of looking at photos to refresh my memory, but what this boils down to is my theory that girls who give LMR are those more likely to see you again because those are the ones who want a relationship, and in some twisted fashion they think that not putting out will make that happen or, and this is more likely, they think that not putting out will weed out the guys just looking for a piece of ass.
And I think we could test this theory by going through our old photos/memories and trying to remember if the
girls who who gave LMR were those who more often saw us again. Any correlation here would equate to us learning a lot!
girls who who gave LMR were those who more often saw us again. Any correlation here would equate to us learning a lot!
Right?
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