For years I studied how to get the world's hottest girls. I wanted to get a new smoking one twice a month (in addition to other girls). My search for a mentor ended upon realizing that the authority on these tan blond goddesses (often called gyaru, examples: pic 1, pic 2, pic 3) was yours truly. I was in Japan, and while regular girls for any white guy are fairly simple, the hottest ones, like in the photos above and below, are nearly impossible for a white foreigner to get. But I studied, learned the language, assimilated, and succeeded.

While studying these sexy, hard-to-get girls, I mastered the thoughts of girls in general, regardless of country or background. Since the tan blond gyarus are so rare, I often dated non-tan blond gyaru Japanese girls, Australians, Brazilians, Americans, and ultimately, girls from over 20 different countries. I conquered all far as girls are concerned. I met all of my goals except for being able to consistently get two tan blond gyarus per month. So since I felt I wasn't able to improve further I left and came back to the states to pursue my financial goals. The next step would have been to turn around and teach others what took me nearly a decade to learn. I didn't do that--no money in it--but I do offer this free site which I enjoy writing.

This site is dedicated to teaching the skills necessary for an average guy to pickup the hottest girls around. Some of it's Japan related, some of it works anywhere. Some topics are quite advanced. All topics, methods, statistics, and advice posted here are based on the true Japan nampa experiences of NuBreed. Pickup material such as this nonexistent other than the occasional forum or blog.

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Why Girls Like Dumb Guys

Wow, I kind of noticed something else again today. This one was again prompted by something I saw today. Again this is something that has to do with all girls, Japanese included, but I might not have realized this had I not played the dating game in both places.

The realization
I moved into my current apartment not only because the price was right, it was clean, and I have a garage, but also because maintenance man seemed reliable. He looks about 30, average build, average looking, but he's, well, kind of slow. Not retarded, but lower IQ. Doesn't take a genius to paint and cut grass, but he seemed...manipulatable (?) and would agree to whatever I wanted done with the apartment before I moved in, show me other rooms on my demand and time frame, etc. Really passive guy. Anyway, I've been here a couple months and I ran into the cleaning girl who was vacuuming the stairs outside my door. She was about 24, tall, blond, extremely cute and from our conversation seemed really smart. I liked her so I found out a bit about her, such as she's going to grad school. But, I stopped when I found out that her BF is the maintenance guy. WTF!

Girls Choosing BFs of Lower Intellectual Capacity
And then it dawned on me that so many of the young, hot girls who AREN'T dumb, such as the ones in college who know where they're going in life (I think there are fewer of these in Japan but still) date complete douchebags. Even in Japan, when a girl is cute and smart, even if she's not in college often you'll hear stories about her B-kei or hostboy retard BF and you're like WTF? Here, the young cute girls love the douchebag wiggers, stoners, or bums.

Why?
And I think one reason this is is because since this type of girl generally knows what she wants, she has to find a guy who will go where she wants to go and do what she wants to do. Mr. 84 IQ isn't going to argue with her about important things in her life--such as moving to a new city with her for school or work--he's just going to follow along, like a puppy dog. And reason 2, I think, is that it's a challenge for a girl to help these guys along. Maybe it's a nurturing motherly instinct to help change these bozos and retards.

The Opposite Type
Of course whatever we say can't sum up the world, because there will always be the more passive girls who either a) can't think for themselves where they want to go on a date so always have the guy choose, b) are so dumb that all guys are above her intellectually, c) aren't attractive so don't have many choices so have to settle for whatever guy they find. In the case of c) I see many great guys who are with unattractive girls because the girls who know what they want don't want a guy who also knows what he wants. Here, the fatties might be smart, but since they have to take what they can get they may be with a more controlling, confident man (like most of us); although they might actually want to be the one in charge. In Japan, many women are extremely passive to begin with, never think, and take on the what I'm calling the lower IQ roll by default.

Monday, September 27, 2010

Girls' Uneasiness After Sex

Time of Unease
I'm referring to the time period after you have sex with a girl, whether that's the first day you met her, date 1, date 3, or date 6. Or, if you're too cool to go on dates--like this 18 yo douchebag Dave who enlightened me about women and said "I don't go on dates"--"meeting 1," "meeting 3," etc. This awkward period will end after you've dated (or "hung out with") her 3 or 4 more times. By this time you two are either a) BF and GF, b) sex friends, c) back to being regular acquaintances, or d) (and I'm positive this one occurs most often) haven't had 3-4 more dates and are no longer speaking to each other.

What Happens in the Time of Unease?
  • First off all, for me, getting that girl to see me again has always been virtually as hard as getting a new girl to date me in the first place. I'm not going to let this post wander down this path though because although refusing to see me again is definitely a sign of unease, we've already posted and theorized a lot about this.
  • Second, when I do get that next date after the first time we've had sex, I realized that the girl is actually LESS likely to come to my house than a new girl. Wow!! I feel they're thinking that I'm trying to use them only for sex (which usually isn't the case) and not going to my house would almost definitely prevent that.
  • Third, when they do come to my house again and get into the same bed in which we've already had sex, they're LESS likely to put out than if they were a brand-new girl! Is this not an amazingly surprising statistic?!!

(Note, during this time of unease, I usually act normally and proceed as if she and I are going be seeing each other well into the future. I don't rush to bang her, but I do hope she stays over so I can bang her again after we're done hanging out.)

Why?
One thing I'm thinking is that the girls who DON'T see me again after sex are the ones who only wanted sex once (I used add "because I'm a gaijin" here but white girls are exactly the same!), thus they put out and never saw me again whereas the ones who do see me again are those looking for a relationship that includes more than sex.

Now, this is pretty technical and would take a lot of looking at photos to refresh my memory, but what this boils down to is my theory that girls who give LMR are those more likely to see you again because those are the ones who want a relationship, and in some twisted fashion they think that not putting out will make that happen or, and this is more likely, they think that not putting out will weed out the guys just looking for a piece of ass.

And I think we could test this theory by going through our old photos/memories and trying to remember if the
girls who who gave LMR were those who more often saw us again. Any correlation here would equate to us learning a lot!

Right?

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'08 beach action!
Sex on the beach and we're not talking cocktails! I really liked this girl. Hope to see her again!