Why I Succeed with Women
Inconsistency
I succeed when I maintain a level of inconsistency, whether consciously or unconsciously. If I mail/call the girl back when she wants me to, I don't have much luck. If I simply ignore her a third of the time--whether purposely or I accidentally--I find that keeps her wanting to see me. A couple months ago I simply forgot to mail the girl back for a whole month. When I finally remembered she seemed keener after a month. Before I learned this I was still able to get girls, but with it I get average girls much more efficiently and can get hot girls systematically instead of just being lucky.
Conversation
In conversation I never dive deeply into a topic she doesn't know or care about. That keeps me away from nerd status. If there is something I'm really into--used to be nuts over cameras--I would clearly state that I'm a nerd about it but won't go into boring detail. For other topics I try to keep the conversation surface level because for the most part no one really cares about your stories except you. I keep them short and elaborate when someone shows interest. At least a mention of a previous lover is always helpful. I never show that I've had sex with a lot of girls though. I usually say 20 but I'll say less if the girl hasn't had much experience and more if she's a big slut.*
What Hasn't Helped
Things that haven't helped are clothing and accessories. Never made a lick of difference except if what I was wearing made me uncomfortable. White T-shirt and flip-flops just as good as something nice. How long to wait to mail after getting a number or how long to wait to reply never mattered either as long as it was 33% inconsistent. Waiting for sex proved to be anti-progressive as over half of my first dates were last dates. "Kino" (touching girls on dates) didn't matter at all. Grabbing her hand to pull her across the street when the light turned green and letting go 2 seconds later was more than enough to let her know I'm not scared to touch her. Usually didn't even do that though.
* Don't know why I want to tell this story here but I was with two girls who said they'd been with 200+ guys. Odd that although I got to third base with both, neither let me get to homeplate. Kind of showed me that being a huge slut doesn't mean you'll easily bang a gaijin! If you search the site you'll probably find me saying, "sluts are harder to get." Why? Because sluts are usually fairly cute and cute girls are harder to get! Sluts have banged a lot of Japanese guys. This doesn't mean they want to bang milker-loving gaijin. Awesome revelation if you ask me but that's just me and I'm amused by small stuff!
