If you know me you'll know that I don't touch girls like most guys do. I don't touch them at all when I pick them up because I personally feel it's creepy. I touch them a bit on dates, I guess, but nothing high-tech or previously planned. I know that a lot of guys want to start off touching girls because they progress their dates by doing so. A little different than my style, but I have a nice way to touch when you first meet a girl.
As I said, I don't do this on a first date, but I'll tell you about a second date with a girl who I'd lost on previously (she didn't even come over). For the second date she came to my usual date meeting spot. There were few people around because it was a rainy day, but at the moment we met up it wasn't raining so she didn't need to hold her umbrella up. I was late as usual (I've yet to discover facts about whether being late is a plus or minus, but I'm going to say it's a plus). Since we'd already been holding hands on the previous date, I walked up to her and grabbed both of her hands/arms while facing her and apologized for being late. Since I touched her from the start she was cuddly for the rest of the date (we ended up at my house for sex but that's another story).
But, most girls don't want to be touched in front of people like that, right? Especially by a gaijin. Some might, some might not, but, here's a simple way to make her feel comfortable: arrange a meeting spot where there are few people. The rain in the story above helped me notice this. A week or so later I met a girl who I met in a rushed 3-4 minute pickup and it was 2 months between that day and this first date. We were supposed to meet in front of a busy store with a Starbucks and a million people passing by. I was there first. So, I mailed her and told her that I'm standing around the side of the building because there are too many people in front and I might not remember her face with all those people.* She came around the side and I could have grabbed her hands had I wanted to (at this point I seriously don't remember if I did hold her hands/arms or not, but I was at least in a position to).
And that's it. A simple changing of the meeting location can open the doors for touching.
*Telling a girl you don't remember her face - does not piss her off it you say it the right way. If you don't know how to say it, or if you don't know how to change the subject while still holding your ground (to remain strong and respectable) while still deterring arguments, you might be better off not saying this. If you know how to say it while making her a bit upset and then changing her mood to happy quickly, then this is a definite benefit. Why? Well, from now on you no longer have to worry about slips of the tongue, as you've already had one would-be altercation and you overcame it. Example: crazy-man Mike Tyson threatens someone: "I'm going to F-ing kill you and rape your children!" No one bats an eye because they expect that from him. Church-going Evander Holyfield: "I hate Mike Tyson and want to hurt him badly." Holyfield would never hear the end of criticism about his brutal comment.
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Losing in the Best Love Hotel!??
I was just on the phone with a friend and we were discussing apartments. Since I love Japan (-ese girls), I want to always have an apartment in Japan, even if I decide to leave for an extended time period. What's the best bet, a decent sized room in a nice building downtown for $9000 a year, a small room in an older building a few subway stops from the heart of the city for $4000, or something in between? Personally I need a clean building in a good location, sacrificing size. Or I can sacrifice the size of my bank account and have everything.
This is what we were discussing and what would be best for guys like us who, even though we may leave the country for work or other engagements in our home countries, we will be visiting Japan for life. Then, we started talking about love hotels (hotels rented by the house for the purpose of sex). There's one in particular that stands out in my mind. My purpose of going was for sex with the girl, but while I was there I had a very moving, emotional experience.
I met the girl at a party and had a date with her a week later. I played it really smooth at first. We were supposed to meet at 5:30, but I was purposely late, so I mailed her and told her to wait in Starbucks. She did. I showed up 20 minutes later and sat in Starbucks talking to her. I didn't even order. We talked 15-20 minutes and that's all the time it took to convince her to come to my house. So, to get her to my house, this date cost me exactly $0.00.
In my house we had a good time, but with my entire bag of tricks I wasn't able to have sex with this girl. I got my hand in her pants a bit and got her shirt off, but in the end, I lost. Usually I don't date girls again who don't let me have sex with them, especially if I've already seen most of their body, but this girl's body was fantastic! So, I had to see her again.
Since we got along well and since (for some odd reason) just banging wasn't on my mind, since she has a car and I don't (no one has a car in Japan), I decided to have her take me to a special restaurant that you kind of a need a car to go to. I need my American food every so often, and she was going to help me get it!
I got the food, and then we were deciding what to do. It was around 10 or 11 pm, and she couldn't stay out all night, but I was thinking that we could go to the love hotel. I usually get all new girls in my house and rarely go to a hotel because they're around $100, but for some reason I felt like going. I tried talking her into it in the car after dinner but she wasn't too keen on the idea. I would have been different if I were driving, but I wasn't! I finally got her to go, but on the premise that we wouldn't be having sex. I took my chances and we went....
The hotel itself was amazing! Driving, we picked among the coolest-looking of several hotels we saw along the road. And of course we picked the coolest room. Inside the room the first thing you notice is a closet to your left. Okay, maybe you wouldn't notice this but I did. It's a closet, and it also opens into the hallway for room service. Great! When you walk forward there's a full-size sink area complete with towels, bathrobes, toothbrushes, hair gel, combs, hair tonic, the works.
Turning left, you see a glass door leading into the huge shower room. In the shower room is the jacuzzi. When you turn the lights off in the shower room and outside room you can turn on the lights in the bottom of them jacuzzi itself with light up the water with a range of different colors you can choose from. There's a TV in the shower room covered by a waterproof case. Off of the shower/jacuzzi room there's a small closet-size room with another glass door and two plastic chairs. It's a sauna! There's another TV in there too. This place is great!
....Since she said we weren't going to have sex, we spent time in the main room relaxing and drinking coffee and alcohol. We planned to take separate baths, and she went first. After she was in the bath I simply undressed and got in too. She was okay with it because the bubbles from the bubblebath covered her whole body and I couldn't see her chest. I changed the jacuzzi lights from red to the brighter light blue and stirred the bubbles to get a few peeks....
Now, if you're at the main sink with the glass door to the shower room on your left, you can go right, and go through the main solid door in the living room/bedroom area. Amazing! First you get a pachinko (slot) machine and a massage chair. I didn't play the slot machine thing but the chair was free and we both got massages.
The chair and the slot machine were in their own little area, next to which was a small living room area. Here you had a matching leather soft and chair, a table, and a wide screen TV with a Playstation and karaoke machine hooked up to it. There were a million channels to watch, too.
...I didn't get any action or even much touching in the bathtub, so we drank and sang karaoke in the TV area. We then went over to the bed area and pulled down the large projector screen and played with the various functions our all-purpose remote gave us. We could control the lights, TV, temperature, karaoke, etc. with this wireless device....
The bed was huge and the fourth TV was near it. The projector screen would be the fifth TV. The bed wasn't vibrating, but the marble counter/headboard between it and the neighboring massage/slot machine area was enough to make me happy.
The whole place was clean and wonderful. Since I've been thinking a lot about my future lately - about where I'll live and what I'll do for money - this hotel really got to me. What is the most fun thing in the world to do? I don't know, but spending time in this hotel was the most fun I had in a long time. Everything was so clean and fun. If it would have been $300 a night I'd still want to go again.
....After our bath, drinking, and singing, I lured her into the bed. We only had bathrobes on. I'm pretty sure she was planning to have sex since she came to the love hotel with me, but since it was around 2 am, and since she said she had to leave soon, and since she said we weren't going to have sex, I was kind of worried. I was actually planning to stay in the hotel alone and take the train home the next day if she left!
I got her bathrobe off and finally fully saw the body I wanted to see. Amazing! I'm so glad I ended up seeing her again. Totally shaved, too. That's rare in Japan. I started putting the moves on her but she wanted to talk. I don't mind talking but not laying in bed naked with a girl I haven't had sex with yet! I didn't want to, but I had no choice: I had to talk!
This girl who came right to my house was a lot harder than I first though. Here we were about 3 hours into our stay in the love hotel and no sex. Was I going to fail? No. Finally, she gave it up. I was relieved. I usually don't do this, but we had sex for about 2 hours in all imaginable positions. It was good. She took me home around 6 am. As it turns out she couldn't stay the night only because she had to have the car back by morning. 6 am was fine, I guess.
That was a few months ago. I haven't seen her since. Not that I wouldn't, but I'm not a guy who needs sex - I'm a guy who needs new girls - so I'm not going to go out of my way to try to see her again. I did keep in touch with her and told her we should hang out again, and she was like yeah, but nothing came of it. Maybe I'll shoot her a mail....
And that's basically it. I liked this place so much that I figured out that I could live there for $36,500 per year. I could probably get it for half of that if I made a deal with the owner, depending on how much business the room gets. But, why live there? I mean, I could just go there anytime for $100. Click on the photo above. It'll open up bigger in a new window. See if you get the same emotional feeling I did. It's a rainy Sunday afternoon right now. Maybe I'll call someone...
This is what we were discussing and what would be best for guys like us who, even though we may leave the country for work or other engagements in our home countries, we will be visiting Japan for life. Then, we started talking about love hotels (hotels rented by the house for the purpose of sex). There's one in particular that stands out in my mind. My purpose of going was for sex with the girl, but while I was there I had a very moving, emotional experience.
I met the girl at a party and had a date with her a week later. I played it really smooth at first. We were supposed to meet at 5:30, but I was purposely late, so I mailed her and told her to wait in Starbucks. She did. I showed up 20 minutes later and sat in Starbucks talking to her. I didn't even order. We talked 15-20 minutes and that's all the time it took to convince her to come to my house. So, to get her to my house, this date cost me exactly $0.00.
In my house we had a good time, but with my entire bag of tricks I wasn't able to have sex with this girl. I got my hand in her pants a bit and got her shirt off, but in the end, I lost. Usually I don't date girls again who don't let me have sex with them, especially if I've already seen most of their body, but this girl's body was fantastic! So, I had to see her again.
Since we got along well and since (for some odd reason) just banging wasn't on my mind, since she has a car and I don't (no one has a car in Japan), I decided to have her take me to a special restaurant that you kind of a need a car to go to. I need my American food every so often, and she was going to help me get it!
I got the food, and then we were deciding what to do. It was around 10 or 11 pm, and she couldn't stay out all night, but I was thinking that we could go to the love hotel. I usually get all new girls in my house and rarely go to a hotel because they're around $100, but for some reason I felt like going. I tried talking her into it in the car after dinner but she wasn't too keen on the idea. I would have been different if I were driving, but I wasn't! I finally got her to go, but on the premise that we wouldn't be having sex. I took my chances and we went....
The hotel itself was amazing! Driving, we picked among the coolest-looking of several hotels we saw along the road. And of course we picked the coolest room. Inside the room the first thing you notice is a closet to your left. Okay, maybe you wouldn't notice this but I did. It's a closet, and it also opens into the hallway for room service. Great! When you walk forward there's a full-size sink area complete with towels, bathrobes, toothbrushes, hair gel, combs, hair tonic, the works.
Turning left, you see a glass door leading into the huge shower room. In the shower room is the jacuzzi. When you turn the lights off in the shower room and outside room you can turn on the lights in the bottom of them jacuzzi itself with light up the water with a range of different colors you can choose from. There's a TV in the shower room covered by a waterproof case. Off of the shower/jacuzzi room there's a small closet-size room with another glass door and two plastic chairs. It's a sauna! There's another TV in there too. This place is great!
....Since she said we weren't going to have sex, we spent time in the main room relaxing and drinking coffee and alcohol. We planned to take separate baths, and she went first. After she was in the bath I simply undressed and got in too. She was okay with it because the bubbles from the bubblebath covered her whole body and I couldn't see her chest. I changed the jacuzzi lights from red to the brighter light blue and stirred the bubbles to get a few peeks....
Now, if you're at the main sink with the glass door to the shower room on your left, you can go right, and go through the main solid door in the living room/bedroom area. Amazing! First you get a pachinko (slot) machine and a massage chair. I didn't play the slot machine thing but the chair was free and we both got massages.
The chair and the slot machine were in their own little area, next to which was a small living room area. Here you had a matching leather soft and chair, a table, and a wide screen TV with a Playstation and karaoke machine hooked up to it. There were a million channels to watch, too.
...I didn't get any action or even much touching in the bathtub, so we drank and sang karaoke in the TV area. We then went over to the bed area and pulled down the large projector screen and played with the various functions our all-purpose remote gave us. We could control the lights, TV, temperature, karaoke, etc. with this wireless device....
The bed was huge and the fourth TV was near it. The projector screen would be the fifth TV. The bed wasn't vibrating, but the marble counter/headboard between it and the neighboring massage/slot machine area was enough to make me happy.
The whole place was clean and wonderful. Since I've been thinking a lot about my future lately - about where I'll live and what I'll do for money - this hotel really got to me. What is the most fun thing in the world to do? I don't know, but spending time in this hotel was the most fun I had in a long time. Everything was so clean and fun. If it would have been $300 a night I'd still want to go again.
....After our bath, drinking, and singing, I lured her into the bed. We only had bathrobes on. I'm pretty sure she was planning to have sex since she came to the love hotel with me, but since it was around 2 am, and since she said she had to leave soon, and since she said we weren't going to have sex, I was kind of worried. I was actually planning to stay in the hotel alone and take the train home the next day if she left!
I got her bathrobe off and finally fully saw the body I wanted to see. Amazing! I'm so glad I ended up seeing her again. Totally shaved, too. That's rare in Japan. I started putting the moves on her but she wanted to talk. I don't mind talking but not laying in bed naked with a girl I haven't had sex with yet! I didn't want to, but I had no choice: I had to talk!
This girl who came right to my house was a lot harder than I first though. Here we were about 3 hours into our stay in the love hotel and no sex. Was I going to fail? No. Finally, she gave it up. I was relieved. I usually don't do this, but we had sex for about 2 hours in all imaginable positions. It was good. She took me home around 6 am. As it turns out she couldn't stay the night only because she had to have the car back by morning. 6 am was fine, I guess.
That was a few months ago. I haven't seen her since. Not that I wouldn't, but I'm not a guy who needs sex - I'm a guy who needs new girls - so I'm not going to go out of my way to try to see her again. I did keep in touch with her and told her we should hang out again, and she was like yeah, but nothing came of it. Maybe I'll shoot her a mail....
And that's basically it. I liked this place so much that I figured out that I could live there for $36,500 per year. I could probably get it for half of that if I made a deal with the owner, depending on how much business the room gets. But, why live there? I mean, I could just go there anytime for $100. Click on the photo above. It'll open up bigger in a new window. See if you get the same emotional feeling I did. It's a rainy Sunday afternoon right now. Maybe I'll call someone...
Friday, June 6, 2008
Blocking the Female Cockblocker
This is a report on a girl who I haven't slept with yet. I met her last week at a party in Kobe. I'll show you a few techniques I used and we'll see if they end up successful in the end! Set your browser to be able to read Japanese text to get the full effect. I'll translate for those who can't read the text.
So, I got to the party a little early. I went with my friend Mild Seven. I met a cute Australian girl who was also there early and even though I'm into Japanese girls, I've only been with a few Australians and it's nice to have a little white meat now and then. She's petite like Japanese girls so I talked to her a bit and exchanged info with the premise that we'd meet up sometime soon.
My friend who was throwing the party, code-name Thinker, invited some of his students. They're all 19-20 and go to a certain college. I picked up the cutest one and sat next to her leg to leg while playing video games at the party. We took a lot of pictures together when she was practically sitting on my lap. She seemed keen so I got her information too.
After that I pretty much ignored the two girls as I was done with them. The next step is a Level 1 date and after that sex. While I was enjoying hanging out with my friends, though, Australian girl and Japanese student girl got to talking and THEY also exchanged information! However, I didn't find this out until this afternoon, over a week later.
I mailed the Australian and tried to get her to come to Osaka but she wasn't too keen on writing back and when she did she said she was busy. That's okay, I gave her time. The Japanese girl, who Thinker was also mailing, however, seemed pretty keen and although she's busy, we discussed times to meet. Now neither of these girls seem like a sure thing, so I'm not too worried about mailing them daily or anything, but I'll shoot them a mail every other day for up to a month if I think I still have a chance. After that I might give up, and send them a mail after a month or two, just in case if they have a change of heart. Anyway...
I mailed the Japanese girl asking of she was free Saturday or Monday. Her reply was pretty sincere:
What!? Sh*t! That's not good! I mean, not that I really care if the yfind out I'm going for both of them, the key to winning is not giving a damn, but I'd rather them not find out. In a way I'm kind of glad they're meeting because I enjoy the drama. And I have nothing to lose except an Australian 6.5 and a Japanese 7.
I decided to see how far I can take it. How can I do something fun and risky to try to get dates with BOTH of them? My reply:
I thought it was a pretty damn good lie if I do say so myself! I know that the conversation about me is going to come up, and I'm pretty sure that they are each going to say that I'm trying to meet them. So, what do I do? I lied to the Japanese girl saying that my friend likes the Australian girl and that I'm trying to hook them up. But don't tell her this! Note how I changed the subject to make it seem insignificant. Changing the subject and lying...tools of the gods.
So, when the Australian girl tells the Japanese girl that I'm trying to meet her, I'm hoping that the Japanese girl won't continue the subject because she's sworn secrecy! I'm hoping that the Japanese girl doesn't tell the Aust that she's going to date me! If she does, oh well, I like her anyway, and I don't expect to get more than one of the two anyway.
She replies shortly after:
Success! So far so good at least! We'll have to see how tomorrow goes to know for sure. But, she's asking me when I'm free, so at least my lie came in under her radar! I replied telling her some nonsense about my day, and told her a day next weekend when I'm free. She only gets one day to choose from this time. If she's keen she'll take it or choose the other day--which I'm actually busy.
Oops, glad this a blog. I didn't even mention anything about the title. It's should read "Blocking the PROBABLE Female Cockblocker" right? Well, my friend had a similar situation where the white girl he made out with was actually mailing the Japanese girl he was on a date with tell her what a bad guy he is! So, I'm taking precautions! :)
I'll update this when more unfolds!
So, I got to the party a little early. I went with my friend Mild Seven. I met a cute Australian girl who was also there early and even though I'm into Japanese girls, I've only been with a few Australians and it's nice to have a little white meat now and then. She's petite like Japanese girls so I talked to her a bit and exchanged info with the premise that we'd meet up sometime soon.
My friend who was throwing the party, code-name Thinker, invited some of his students. They're all 19-20 and go to a certain college. I picked up the cutest one and sat next to her leg to leg while playing video games at the party. We took a lot of pictures together when she was practically sitting on my lap. She seemed keen so I got her information too.
After that I pretty much ignored the two girls as I was done with them. The next step is a Level 1 date and after that sex. While I was enjoying hanging out with my friends, though, Australian girl and Japanese student girl got to talking and THEY also exchanged information! However, I didn't find this out until this afternoon, over a week later.
I mailed the Australian and tried to get her to come to Osaka but she wasn't too keen on writing back and when she did she said she was busy. That's okay, I gave her time. The Japanese girl, who Thinker was also mailing, however, seemed pretty keen and although she's busy, we discussed times to meet. Now neither of these girls seem like a sure thing, so I'm not too worried about mailing them daily or anything, but I'll shoot them a mail every other day for up to a month if I think I still have a chance. After that I might give up, and send them a mail after a month or two, just in case if they have a change of heart. Anyway...
I mailed the Japanese girl asking of she was free Saturday or Monday. Her reply was pretty sincere:
遅くなりました！
こめんね↓土曜は学校の就職説明会があって、月曜はバイトだよ～ （泣）
(Sorry to write back late! I'm busy at school this Saturday and work on Monday [cry])
明日[Australian Girl]とご飯行くよ☆
(I'm having dinner with the Australian girl tomorrow)
What!? Sh*t! That's not good! I mean, not that I really care if the yfind out I'm going for both of them, the key to winning is not giving a damn, but I'd rather them not find out. In a way I'm kind of glad they're meeting because I enjoy the drama. And I have nothing to lose except an Australian 6.5 and a Japanese 7.
I decided to see how far I can take it. How can I do something fun and risky to try to get dates with BOTH of them? My reply:
busy girlやな！[Aust girl's name]可愛いやろう？[she]のことがいいと思ってる友達がいるから今度合わせてあげる！絶対言わないでな！(｀_´)
(Wow, you're busy! The Aust girl is pretty damn cute, eh? Actually my friend has the hots for her. So, next time I'm going to hook them up together. Don't mention anything to her!!)
てか俺新しい携帯買うねん。ポイントいっぱいあるから無料やって！外国も使えるやつにする！＼(^O^)／
(Anyway, I'm gonna buy a new phone. I have my cell phone points saved up so they told me it'll be free! I'm gonna get on I can use other countries too!)
I thought it was a pretty damn good lie if I do say so myself! I know that the conversation about me is going to come up, and I'm pretty sure that they are each going to say that I'm trying to meet them. So, what do I do? I lied to the Japanese girl saying that my friend likes the Australian girl and that I'm trying to hook them up. But don't tell her this! Note how I changed the subject to make it seem insignificant. Changing the subject and lying...tools of the gods.
So, when the Australian girl tells the Japanese girl that I'm trying to meet her, I'm hoping that the Japanese girl won't continue the subject because she's sworn secrecy! I'm hoping that the Japanese girl doesn't tell the Aust that she's going to date me! If she does, oh well, I like her anyway, and I don't expect to get more than one of the two anyway.
She replies shortly after:
ＯＫ！[Aust girl]いい子やな★☆明日は楽しんでくる♪
またその友達にも会わせてな♪つぎいつがヒマ？
(Ok! She's a good girl! I'm looking forward to seeing her tomorrow. You should hook her up with that friend who likes her. When are you free next?)
Success! So far so good at least! We'll have to see how tomorrow goes to know for sure. But, she's asking me when I'm free, so at least my lie came in under her radar! I replied telling her some nonsense about my day, and told her a day next weekend when I'm free. She only gets one day to choose from this time. If she's keen she'll take it or choose the other day--which I'm actually busy.
Oops, glad this a blog. I didn't even mention anything about the title. It's should read "Blocking the PROBABLE Female Cockblocker" right? Well, my friend had a similar situation where the white girl he made out with was actually mailing the Japanese girl he was on a date with tell her what a bad guy he is! So, I'm taking precautions! :)
I'll update this when more unfolds!
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