Hot Girls Who Are Ugly By Comparison

Here's a simple technique that can get you not the hottest girls, but girls much hotter than the normal foreigner gets in Japan. In fact, these girls will only look hot AFTER you've seen them a second time. You'll see why later. If you're not going for the most popular, hard-to-get A-class girls then you can skip this one. If you're stubborn and think you deserve to date out of your league, then this is for you!

First, a note on hotness. Foreigners in Japan usually get girls who are average or even below average. A 5 is average, and foreigners, most of the time, date within the 3 to 6 range. But, you must know that most foreigners rate these girls 8s or 9s, because, as they say, "she's cute to me." NuBreed Nampa doesn't care what you think or what we think, we care what everyone thinks, thus we care what the Japanese guys who hit on them think, because that determines a girl's popularity and her need to settle for a guy less than her ideal. And since the average girls are largely ignored by desirable Japanese guys, they are--quite obviously--average 5s.

Anyone who knows anything knows that you can't simply walk up to any 8 (which is extremely hot, BTW) expecting to get her. You'd have to try quite a few just to get a phone number. But something I've noticed, is that in the presence of 8-9s, A-class 6-7s appear average, and no guys hit on them! You yourself may not even notice them. It took me years to realize this! In fact, many of these 6-7s may be actually waiting to be hit on!

Trance Dance Club

I used to go to this club in Osaka called Joule (useless homepage here) where all the tan-blond gyarus (examples: 1, 2, 3) and other beautiful girls go to dance to trance music. I was completely ineffective on the dancefloor because I'm not Japanese, I'm not a gyaru guy, it's loud, girls are interested in the DJ and not the guys around them, etc. Plus it's so loud in there that I can't even talk to my friends, which requires much less effort than talking to new girl I want to sleep with. In short, I say it's impossible for a white foreigner to pick up the 8-9s on that loud, smoky dance floor. I gave up trying.*

Besides the hot 8s and 9s on the dance floor with their friends, there are still plenty of 6-7s to be had. In this club, they are the lower class (besides foreigners, of course!). These girls are still cute and may even been the same age as some of the 8-9s. Some may actually be more physically beautiful too, it's just that they aren't dressing as glamorously. And they just might be waiting for some guys to talk to them! All the guys are focused on the 8-9s on the dance floor, so these 6-7s could be lonely! I got myself a few nice girls this way.

The Beach

I wasn't planning on mentioning the beach here, but writing the above I was reminded that the beach is the exact same situation! On the beach (or in any club for that matter**) I would always find the hottest girl and work my way down. I'd either lose on her, note that she's with a BF, or note that she's in a crowd and keep my eye on her. On any given day on the beach there could be as many as 50 girls 7.5 or higher! That's the highest concentration ever! I would work my (non) magic and talk to them. After a couple hours I would be dead tired and disheartened that I only got the numbers of a couple out of the 30-40 girls I talked to. They might have been 8s, but the chances of a beach 8 replying is close to zero (want to ask me how I know that?).

A couple times I picked up a 6.5 or 7 on the beach, enjoyed her company, had sex, etc. Off the top of my head I can remember three that actually came up to me because guys weren't talking to them! I closed the deal on all of them. But, what really made me understand what was going on were two girls in particular. I was in Japan 3-4 years at this point so it was nothing I realized quickly. I hit on a girl, but ended up getting her friend's number and nailing her. At the time I wasn't interested in that 7 on a beach full of 8-9s! But, looking at her pics while not on the beach, she was cute!

And finally, another one was when I hit on a blond. She was friendly, but passed me to her friend because "she like gaijin." I dated that friend for several months and I don't think anyone would deny that she was cute. I've showed her picture around more than usual because she was actually my GF for a time and both Japanese and foreign guys liked her a lot. She was very important to me for the better part of a year. And to think that I almost didn't get her because I was stupid and let my eyes be distracted by by blond hair and suntans. She wasn't an 8, but she was a 7, and I was very happy with that.

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So anyway, that's just something I learned. If you're not going for the hottest girls anyway then this post isn't for you. Maybe you're not as stubborn as me and think you deserve the most popular girls in the first place, so maybe this post should be a lesson to only to myself!?


* You're damn right I was waiting for them as they left the dance floor for the bar or the bathroom though! ;)
** And now at work, for that matter. Ha!

Ashamed to Be With Foreigners

Simple Explanation

First I'll tell you how it is: in Japan, we are not the norm. We might be said to be handsome, but we are not viewed as cool, normal, mainstream, or acceptable. We're the equivalent of a handsome black man like Denzel Washington or Will Smith going to try to pick up girls in a town where half the men are white supremacists or KKK members. If that's not enough to convince you, read on to the next scenario.

Jessie, Lindsey, and Their Town

Jessie is a white girl in a fairly normal town in the USA. The town is predominately white, about 75%, with 10% being Hispanic, and 10% black. The other 5% are Arab or "other" and they don't generally leave their respective groups. Jessie is extremely gorgeous, as is her best friend Lindsey. They're both thin, blond, and guys hit on them every day. They only date the muscular guys who dance around and aren't too nice to the girls. You might call them wiggers, tools, or douchebags, but regardless, these dudes are the only ones getting the girls. Josh and Cody are these guys. They were Jessie and Lindsey's ex-boyfriends. Jessie was talking to one of Josh and Cody's friends afterwards, but it didn't work out.

Enter Kang and Ji

One day, when walking through the mall, Kang and Ji two Chinese guys, introduce themselves to Jessie and Lindsey. Kang and Ji speak pretty good English, but if you walked by them you'd be sure they were fresh off the boat. Actually, they're both 28 years old and just finished grad school in the US and have decent jobs. They've both been in the US for 5 years. You wouldn't call them handsome as they are really short and skinny and have the Chinese hairstyle Americans think of as "messy." In all, they're nice guys, but no one takes the time to find that out.

Jessie and Lindsey do, though. They exchange numbers and go on a double date with these guys. The go to the local bar and grill and have some burgers and a few drinks. They're having a good time until Josh, Cody, and all of their friends show up. Josh and Cody snicker at the girls for being with the Chinese guys because they're different and not cool like them. Kang and Ji ignore the comments but Jessie and Lindsey feel embarrassed.

Enter Loud Group of Guys

Another group of guys sitting near who don't even know Jessie and Lindsey. Many of them scream remarks in loud voices, "What are those hot girls doing with those foreigners?" "Those guys are dangerous!" "They're not normal!" "They never have any money!" "They probably have AIDS!" "They are really poor and only come to the world's number one country to rape our women!" "Dangerous!"

This goes on a for while and although Jessie and Lindsey liked Kang and Ji, after they finish their drinks they go home and never talk to them again. They even change their phone numbers because they are too cowardly to tell Kang and Ji that the real reason they can't hang out with them is because of what OTHER people think.

Poor Kang and Ji have had this happen on many occasions. They always get cockblocked by these jerkoff American losers who in 5 years will not have good jobs and will be fat and broke paying child support to 3 different women. But, for now, they have to deal with it.

Kang and Ji Find Girls

Kang and Ji have to settle for some chunky girls, Becky and Katie, with glasses who they met on campus. These girls are 21, but they aren't what you'd call beautiful. They are really interested in Kang and Ji though because they have many chances to practice their Chinese language skills on them. Kang and Ji don't really know what the hell they're trying to say, but they humor them because they want to have sex with someone. In fact, there are several girls studying Chinese at their school and, while none of them are cute, they can pretty much have their pick. They know the girls are using them for language and cultural understanding, but they're using the girls for sex, so it's okay. At least when they go back to China they can tell their friends they had sex with some "hot" American girls. Their friends won't know they're not hot. All white people look alike to them.

And that's your story, folks. If you can make sense of that and change the actors you've just been shown how cute Japanese girls feel when being picked up by foreigners. Hope you enjoyed that!

Characters

Kang - You
Ji - Your best friend
Jessie & Lindsey - Hot Japanese girls
Josh & Cody - Gyaru-o
Guys in Bar - Jealous Japanese guys
Becky & Katie - Milkers
Bar & Grill - Izakaya
USA - Japan

Note: No racist comments have been made by the author nor should any be assumed. Any derogatory statements have been used as an explanation method and are not the views of anyone at NuBreed Nampa.

Practice Date

This is something that came to me the other day when I was thinking about this girl. I haven't tried it yet. I was thinking of trying it on a girl at work who, if turned me down for a date, I would save massive face by saying that it's not a real date, but a practice date.

Don't get it?

Hard-to-Schedule Girl

So, you get a girl's number and you're mailing (texting) with her trying to get her to date* you. Japanese girls, especially the ones I call 7.5s and above, are pretty hard to schedule. Going on a date with a gaijin isn't their top priority. If their friends can come it might be fun for an hour or two and then they leave you to do their own thing (ask me how I know this!). She leaves being able to tell everyone that they hung out with a foreigner and you leave what you thought was going to be a romantic date pissed off with a droopy pecker. I'm getting way off-topic here, but it just goes to show that....

Hot girls have better things to do than hang out with you (such as sit on the floor by Lawson and paint their nails). They might be interested in hanging out with you, but not dating you romantically. Or, they likely would "let you" have sex with her IF the conditions were right. Whose job is it to create those conditions? Let's hope you can answer that for yourself.

So, she can't go out with you one-on-one because you're a handsome, seductive guy who made her slightly horny the first time you were around her. She wants to go, but since you refuse to let her show up with her friend, she's planning on turning you down. Nothing you can say will convince her, except maybe saying that you'll meet for one hour for coffee right by her house or something like that. Sure, you might get a purikura with her, but that's a huge waste of your time. So, you just tell her that you can only meet her in the evening in a certain spot, alone, or else you can't meet her at all. She stops mailing you. Unless!....

Possible Solution

You tell her it's a "practice date"! You say, "No no no, we're not going on a date date, it's a practice date." And she'll ask you what you mean by that. You tell her that you'll be going on dates in the future and likely so will she. So you will go though the motions of a date, but you'll both do it knowing that it's practice!

Women's Psychology

Now will it really be practice? No, it won't. The girl, if she comes, will come only because she was allowed to say it was practice. She needs to save face so she doesn't feel like a slut. She needs an excuse to go and saying that the date is only practice just might work. During the date you act normally and you take her home after and have sex with her. She only wanted you for sex anyway since she's never had sex with a foreigner, so the next day she changes her email address and never talks to you again. You ALLOWED her to get what she wanted without feeling slutty about it. She gave you what you wanted, rather, you gave yourself what you wanted! Congratulations! Now would you rather have had sex with this girl once and have her never talk to you again, or would you rather just have her flake? Yeah.

Is this guaranteed to work? No. Will it? Don't know. Would I try it if she refused to give me a Level 1 date and I had no other tricks up my sleeve? Absolutely!


* After the "Mystery Boom" (as I'll from here on out call it), a one-on-one get-together including a guy (who likes girl) and a girl who have met each other recently has, by guys in the "PU-community," suddenly stopped being called a "date" and has reverted to the old term "hang-out." Hang out was not popular in the 80s and 90s, rather, we said "date." In the 90s the term "hang-out" came back into the language forcefully, and after the Mystery Boom PUAs started to use that to replace "date" as to make the get-together seem more friendly. Thus the girl, thinking it's not a date, figures the guy has no romantic expectations of her and she is more likely to go on the DATE.