Keep Staff Girls Comfortable at PU

Here are few tips to keep the staff of clothing or accessory stores comfortable while you pick them up. These tips are for general situations, hunting objective 7.5s and up, around 20 years old, in small mall/shotengai boutiques...

• There will be 2-5 girls working there. The other staff are your obstacles. If they are watching you hit on their co-worker, you'll likely lose big-time; unless if the girl(s) is average in looks (a 5), over 30, or the manager.
• If you get eye contact, which is likely at a store, then you have to go when the timing is right, which is a few seconds within the eye-contact, however, you can choose when first eye contact occurs by not looking at her directly until you're ready to go to her.
• The other customers are your friends. Use them to your advantage. Talk to the girl when the customers are near the other staff. The staff may not bother you, but you're not the important one here, she is. And you must keep her comfortable.
  

• To keep it from looking like a pickup and to keep the other staff from bothering you or looking and embarrassing her, keep your body turned away from the girl, stand facing the same direction as her, or keep moving around and looking at things.
• It's 50/50 that she won't have her phone on her. Business cards are ideal but I have a low reply rate, so I only use them when absolutely necessary (which is why I have a low reply rate!). To get her info you should quickly use infra-red, or just type her number into your phone or yours into hers (in this case press send or else you've just wasted your time).
• If she doesn't have the phone, and since getting it may get her in trouble/embarrassed, have her go to the counter and write down her info. If other cock-blocking staff are there go to the counter with her, because they could stop her from writing it down. If you are there, although she's embarrassed, she will write it, but she'll no longer be embarrassed when you mail her later that night.

A-Class & B-Class Girls

Until I made up this comparison and separated girls into A and B class, I was having a few problems categorizing women. First, you can never know what kind of girl someone is talking about with a number on the Personal Looks Rating Scale. All guys rate girls differently even if we use the same scale (which is why I created the Objective Looks Scale. See Glossary). Two, I find myself always talking to one type of girl, but before the A and B-class categorization, they were all kind of lumped together and judged on facial beauty alone. This really helps put things into perspective. Three, you can learn so much about a girl, or her friends, simply by placing her in a class. Four, the term "gyaru" is has too many interpretations. So, here is my simplification.

The A-class consists mainly of girls dressing similar to one conforming to a specific kei, or decided fashion style. This includes any member of the following kei: one-kei, mamba, gyaru, surf-kei, B-kei, lolita-kei, goth/loli-kei, celeb/B-kei, celeb/gyaru-kei, one-gyaru, amongst others. The following are often indicators of girls in the A-class: dyed hair, short skirts or shorts, white makeup around eyes, glitter, hair-extensions, fake eyelashes, suntans, sunglasses, cleavage, showing skin, color clothing, Stitch, Pooh, or Marie apparel, in her teens, dropped out of school, highly accessorized, piercings, amongst many more. The more of these a girl has, the more likely she is to closely relate to a decided kei, and is therefore more likely to be in the A-class.

The B-class includes everyone who is not in the A-class. This would include normal girls, OLs, or anyone fitting into "casual-kei." Here are some characteristics: black or dark brown hair, jeans, slacks, long shorts or long skirts, jobs, lighter skin, parasols, generally older than A-class, educated, and so on. (Note: A & B were chosen for simplicity, neither is being classified as more desirable than the other.)

A/B-class: this group includes girls who have too many of both class's characteristics to be in either class. They are in the gray (or in this case, purple) area.


Preferences: Some men might desire a girl from the A-class more often than girls from the B-class, and vice-versa. It's a personal preference. Even if someone is really into the A-class style girl, he will almost always be interested in a cute B-class girl, but not as much as her A-class twin sister. Or, someone might think a girl's beautiful, but be turned off by her outrageous A-class fashion sense. There will be different levels of discrepancy regarding a raw beauty vs. class (style): sometimes style will be important whereas sometimes raw beauty is important.

And the charts. Naturally there are many more members in the B-class, so its box is larger. If someone likes A-class girls, the girl he desires most, will usually be an A-class girl, and the same holds true for he who likes the more casual B-class, therefore, that particular class is higher. And, for he who cares nothing about fashion but sees only Raw Beauty, see the following chart:


Next is a chart for someone who is largely attracted to A-class girls. See how a girl has to be physically cuter to be "average."


So what do we learn? That we can hunt a girl from behind without seeing her face and 9/10 times be satisfied with our target. That I know what to expect when a girl brings a friend, because the friend is also likely A-class. He who thinks information like this can't help him has not reached his full potential with women

Is She "Desireable" or a WOT?

Have you ever been in one of those situations where you feel like you've wasted time sleeping with another 6? Have you ever wondered what NuBreed means when he uses the word "desirable" and says it doesn't relate to a girl's looks? Well, this entry will answer these questions.

Some of you reading this have never really felt like you've had too many women at a given time. Some however do have the problem. For me, it goes something like this: I have a few girlfriends who are 8s. One's even an 8.5; and young. And I've been with a few new, hot girls in the past few weeks. And then I go out and try a 6. How do I feel? Well, I'd usually take a girl out for a drink or at least have a drink with her in my house before sex, and that takes an hour or two, and then the sex itself and hanging out with her after takes time too. When I'm done, I've just spent 5 hours to sleep with a girl who left me feeling unsatisfied. Why?

Now there are some guys who are looking for help because they lack motivation. The above refers to me having too much motivation. Why do I sleep with girls and when I'm done, wish I wouldn't have? Her not being new anymore is part of it, but not the whole. Is it because I'm still unconsciously thinking that I have to get the most girls possible? Is it that I'm addicted? My friend Mild Seven had this comment: "Sometimes we go for girls below our standards because there's nobody else around, or because it requires less boldness to approach (or a warm-up) etc."

Many guys who have lived in Japan (or anywhere for that matter) who have been moderately successful with women often say, 'It's quality, not quantity.' Personally I've always gone for a large quantity of high quality girls, and still do. However, I feel the time is coming that I need to cut down a bit.

So, before I can make a list of what types of girls it's okay for me to have sex with without feeling I've wasted my time, a definition of desirability is in order. Desireability - a rating on a scale 0-10 which encompasses how badly you want sex with a girl. This is not to be confused with the Objective Looks Rating Scale. Example 1: "She's an average 5, but I like her because she has monster tits!!" Desirability: 8. Example 2: "She's a 5, but she's my old boss's daughter!" Desirability: 9! You get the picture.

And, the list of things that makes a girl desirable for me. If a girl has any of these things, although she may be a 3 in Looks, her Desirability might be an 8. Remember, a girl's rating on your Personal Looks Scale is usually the most important factor in Desirability, but as you can see from the examples above, not necessarily.

Factors that make a girl desirable for me:

• Pregnant. Gross? I don't care what you say. I'd like to be with a woman who's 6-8 months pregnant because I've never tried it. I don't want a fat, old pregnant lady, and of course an 18 year old pregnant gyaru would be the ideal and ultimate 10 in Desirability, but even your normal, 25 year old B-class 5, pregnant, would be fine. She'd be an 8 in desirability, to me, just because she's pregnant
• Tan-blond gyaru. I've been with dozens and dozens of "gyaru,"* dozens of "blonds," and my share of tan girls. But the strict definition of tan-blond gyaru means that you don't even see too many of them. Therefore they're rare. Therefore I desire them.
  
• Skinny. I dated a girl 35.5 kilograms the other day! I wrapped my hands around her waist with a few centimeters to spare. Gross? Good. Pass the skinny ones my way!
  
• Short. My shortest to date is 143 cm. She was an average 5, but since I don't see 143 cm 8s walking around daily, I'll settle for this one. Bet you haven't got smaller? You don't like? Hey, this is my scale. 143 cm = a 3 to you? Great! Pass her to me and I'll buy you a beer! :)
  
• Big tits. I'm not as into this as most guys, but if a girl has enormous knockers, there's not a guy in the world who doesn't want to see them. I'll always make an exception for huge breasts, provided she isn't fat.
  
• Lolita. I've never had one of these. They are usually too young with strange personalities. Would be interesting.
• Twins. I slept with a girl who had an identical twin. When I picked her up she was with her sister too. Both virgins. I'd like to go back and get the sister, but that'd just be wrong!
• Hot Indian. I'm always interested in girls from other countries. I've been with girls of about 18 different countries, and the girls in India's music videos are hot! I want one!
  
• 7.5+. Duh. On the NuBreed Scale, 7.5s are hot, and gaijin don't regularly get them. In fact, it's so rare that I've only seen a little over 50 foreign guys with 7.5s since I started counting a few years ago.
  

So, these are the things that currently top my list. You may have a similar list. These factors are what we desire. And since this is supposed to be a two-part post, I have to add that if the girl doesn't fall into any of these categories, she's a WOT (waste of time).


*The definition of "gyaru" differs by speaker. See Glossary.